Girls, what are the three magic words your partner can say that will end an argument?

[OlderAndWiser]

Some conflicts seem like they are beyond hope of resolving. The best strategy at that point may be to tell you something that distracts you from the conflict, some special words that will immediately connect with you, so. . .

What are the three magic words your significant other can use to immediately shut down the disagreement?

I love you.

I was wrong.

I'm so sorry!

You're so beautiful!

Let's go shopping!

Wanna have sex?

Something else I'll explain in a comment

[VIVANT]

If Someone is arguing with me there’s really no free magic words that will end it and I don’t argue with people for the sake of arguing. It happens when I’m trying to solve a problem and there’s some obstacle and some misunderstanding causing defensiveness or the situation that kist doesn’t feel like dealing with it so they’re digging in, but it’s even being mentioned even if calmly.

Some people argue the very first thing and other people are able to not ever have an argument. It really depends on how you approach problems. I know people who flip at the slightest trace of a problem and others you can’t rattle.

another am perfectly capable and willing to discuss something calmly. I don’t need to argue about things. so if somehow there is an argument that’s ensued the way to resolve it is to discuss calmly not to give me free magic words that is just trying to placate in the moment im order to move on quickly from something that obviously hasn’t been resolved otherwise they wouldn’t need to be magic words.

There’s an argument that makes everything better is trusting that the other person cares about you and fixing the problem even if they’re frustrating at the moment. I think a lot of people when they’re frustrated, they just end up acting like they are against the other person or there’s a lot of resentment and that makes it impossible to really look at any problems, carefully logically, and compassionately.. so I’m really sorry there’s not a few magic words. It’s just getting to the bottom of problem with someone, rather than against them.

I get along really well with people who favor in depth discussion over passion complex.

I’ve never not once had an argument with my boyfriend tho we have had disagreements, but we just discuss everything in depth. Respectfully- to the point where nobody is wondering or confused about anything. To me that’s really the key.. if everyone is understood and you actually care about each other there’s really absolutely no reason to argue.

[sage2021]

@VIVANT

My late boyfriend and I didn't ever fight or have any heated discussions. We were like you are with your boyfriend. We did agree 100% of the time but it didn't turn into an argument. However, it did clear the air
He was always so open to having discussions about things vs arguing about them - same with me.
I wish there were more people like he was.

[Caroline91]

We're a team.

[OlderAndWiser]

Excellent! I like that!

[Jennz6]

@Caroline91
We’re a team too 💕

[Caroline91]

@Jennz6 yep. I’m your wing woman! Lol

[DishLady]

Lol. I really love the options.

So there's a guy I've had on-and-off arguments with for the past year. He's into me but has a lot of issues and wants to be a player... so I told him to go be a player and leave me tf alone bc I'm very clearly NOT "side piece" material. And every time I step away he tries to drag me back with a sweet-but-dramatic expression or gesture. At this point he's tried all the above as well as "You're so amazing". I just shake my head at him bc I know he's not serious. I tell him it's not enough to just say this stuff. He has to want to be consistent in his behavior and not mess with me and whoever his "flavor of the week" person is.

So what ends the argument is never really the magic words. It's the golden heart and the resolve to BE the person you say you will be.

[sage2021]

I think that if you tell the person that you don't want to argue with them because you love them and that you want to work together on resolving the issue - it might bring the person's defenses down and then you can talk about resolving it together and come to some sort of agreement and put it behind you.

Make the other person understand that you are on their team with them and that you want to make things better between them.

That is acting with adult behavior and adult conversations happen when you both realize that you don't want whatever it is to go on anymore and possibly get worse.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I was thinking that there isn't any that he can to resolve an argument, we need to just talk it out. Three words won't mean that you agree to my side of the story.

But I will say... if he says "Your will, Domina" will make me put that argument on the shelf for a little bit.

[grungeberry]

Is “I love you” too cliche? Not saying that those words will end an argument…lol

[Razp_Sorbet]

My partner and I don't really argue we just talk things through

[ariadneR]

He just has to say my name to be honest

[Jennz6]

Let’s have sex

[Xoxocutekitty]

"Ok, you're right"

[mrshooiser]

Your so beautiful