Cheating turns them on, or is it taboo?

[that_one_girll]

Do guys enjoy the physical aspect of cheating, or is it the thrill of sneaking around behind their partner's back that excites them, knowing it’s taboo?

[Finchie40]

Maybe to some guys’ but not all , Cheating is a selfish act period , People cheat for a lot of reasons but the primary reason a guy will cheat, is if his partner isn’t fulfilling his wants and needs at home. Most guys’ I knew that cheated , all said the same thing , that their wife or girlfriend no longer wants sex like they use to , and said they are tired of being rejected sexually by their partner so they found a girl that doesn’t reject them. They claimed they still loved their partner but she is t as sexual as he was. Unfortunate girls’ can do the same thing , I been the other guy a handful of times with taken girls’ that were unhappy in their relationship that would confess to me after we had sex that they had a boyfriend or a husband. So it just goes to show how selfish people can be. I’m not going to be a hypocrite because I cheated once when I was younger because my girlfriend the time became a massive bitch towards me , so when I cheated on her , I immediately ended it with her , I didn’t try to go back to her like everything was fine , I confessed to her immediately that I got with another girl last night and I no longer want to be with you anymore , I’m sorry I went down this road but one thing led to another and it just happened , I said you did cross my mind but unfortunately I didn’t care because of how mean you been to me lately so since I ended up in bed with another girl , I no longer want to see you anymore. I did feel like an asshole because I put myself on her shoes and thought how I would feel if she did that to me. So from that day forward I never cheated on a girl again , but I been cheated on by girls’ a few times after that. So again people cheat for a lot of reasons but the bottom line it’s selfish act. Even worse of the person tries to come back to you like nothing happened , which I witnessed happening a bunch of times with cheating partners’ that go back to their partners’ like nothing happened. So learning to remove selfishness for your partner is sadly hard for a lot of people to do, because most people in general are selfish and only really care about what is best for themselves. So if you don’t want your partner leaving you or cheating on you , my advice is to keep them satisfied in the bedroom. If a partner still cheats on you after
You that for them , then they are the biggest scum on this earth

[WhiteThought]

Maybe some of them do, but overall, no. What turns men on is having sex with multiple women. Why? Because that is literally how we are wired. Being with one woman takes discipline, self control, but that instinctual impulse never goes away. Women don't understand, because they are women. Just like men don't always understand women having higher standards. Men aren't the ones that are weaker, or the ones carrying a baby for 9 months.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Well, that depends on how you want to approach it. I mostly know this in terms of psychological kinks so we’ll just run down the list right quick:
1. Cheating - yes, the excitement of doing what you know is “forbidden” along with the knowledge of consequences for getting caught make for a very large sexual thrill.
2. Affairs - pretty much the same as no. 1 but marriage is involved.
3. NTR - this is specific to a genre of pornography in Japan known as “Netorare” or NTR. The story is basically that someone in a relationship starts out being sexually involved in kink no. 1 but it slowly turns into them preferring the affair partner and eventually turning into a corrupted, sexually-fueled relationship that sometimes includes elements of no. 4 but mostly ends with that relationship being destroyed.
4. Cuckolding - now this is a unique kink in that this person doesn’t want to do the cheating but rather wants to be cheated ON. It’s a very unique, niche kink that involves a level of submission by proxy to the affair partner that happens to be of the same sex as them most of the time. It can also involve elements of voyeurism, exhibitionism, humiliation, chastity, and bondage.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Also it’s highly likely that any individual with any of these kinks got them through some form of psychological trauma and this is their way of taking control of that traumatic memory.

[BarryLiverstone]

Guys like novelty. The ones who cheat want to recreate that excitement of meeting someone new and forming a new connection. That feeling they are lacking in their current partner

[MasterKS]

I am not in relationship but i love to be part of cheating, i have been with many and understand why people loves cheating.

[MannMitAntworten]

Never heard this before.

[jahaims]

People who cheat do so to cope with self hate

[Kelly6]

@that_one_girll its both of them

[Arcadian222]

Its just the excitement