Why are incels so hated if it's an involuntary condition?

[Anonymous]

It's literally in the name. If it's involuntary then you don't choose for it to happen.

[Effably]

People rarely like it wyen others victimize themselves and then blame other people.

Making a victim of yourself and asking for help? Sure. People go for that. Everyone loves an underdog.

Making a victim of yourself and being pissy about it when you get help? Neh. We had quite a few former popular now detested isms that did that.

There is also the simple question of if they even are. After all, as a general rule of thumb, if they are not in reasonably good shape and putting in effort socially there is nothing truly involuntary about it.

[Anonymous]

Because while they may be involuntarily celibate, they are VOLUNTARILY taking themselves out of the running. And one thing you're going to find with woman as a whole. Even if they dislike you, even if they despise you, in a woman's eyes, it's a man's DUTY all men's duty to desire her. All men's duty to pursue her. After all she gets up each more and puts on her clown makeup. She diets maybe even throws up what she eats. She exercises for hrs. Just so these men will do that. Why should he get to take what she sees as "the easy road", because she didn't.

In layman's terms she's incesensd because she feels he he smirking he perceived duty to her. And if she can't get that she's going to ridicule anything she can about him.

[avery58]

It's not because they can't get laid. It's because of how they react and their hatred towards women, because they can't get laid. Many of them are racist too.

[alice55]

It's because some of them have very shit personality and are extremely violent towards women (verbally). so they get a bad rep because of those one.

[AI Opinion]

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[WhiteSteve]

I don’t think anyone hates anyone for being unsuccessful in dating. It’s the subsequent hostile responses that go overboard from some of them. Obviously I feel bad if anyone is struggling in that department, but turning around and lashing out at women isn’t the correct solution, and will lose anyone sympathy if they resort to that.

[Ariesman81]

It's become my belief that anyone who calls someone an "incel" is doing so to protect themselves from perceived rejection. It's childish name calling at the very least and says more about the person using the term than it does about the person it's directed towards.

[Anonymous]

Technically incels who want sex from women but can't get it and thus they get miserable , hate women etc etc
But nowadays that word is thrown around so lot that if a man does not get called an incel he is probably a simp hehehe

[Anonymous]

It’s not involuntary. They just would like everyone to believe that it is.

[n8765]

That Poor guys , someone's son, are indoctrinated with toxic beliefs from many reasons and from different people.. so like human beings they don't deserve that hate... It's just people hate in what all that outside believes turned them into

[jahaims]

Incels think it's a look thing and not personality. If you are hated by most it's your personality

[Anonymous]

Because most of them talk badly about women.

I also never had sex, but I have nothing but respect for women.

[seeyounexttuesday]

lol, it's not involuntary. It's a commitment to being a loser. It's a choice.

[BigSwingingBalls]

because of the ideology in incel online spaces

[grungeberry]

Because most of them are misogynists

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Incel isn’t a medical condition lol