Have you ever been taken advantage of in a relationship?

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In what way? When did you realise? What did you do about it?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Oh yes , plenty of times , when I ended up with lying selfish girls’ that only really cared about what was best for themselves and acting like they were put on Earth to be catered to at all times. In the beginning things were great but as time goes on, their true colors shine and I realized they were selfish bitches that are meant for the streets , and not under my sheets 😂

Hellraiser1984 · Accepted Answer

Me ex therapist wanted a sexual relationship. I fell for it. Found out she was engaged for three years and was trying to cheat on her fiance with me. It hurt really bad because she betrayed me in every way possible. I attempted suicide. Every time I have to look at my wrists I see the scars and I have to think of her.

Tracy2025 · Accepted Answer

For me, it was more emotional than anything else — constantly giving, compromising, being understanding, while the other person just took and expected more.

FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

Yes. The vain part of me wanted to be loved. If I knew with 14 what I know now, this wouldn't happen.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

I'm here to help navigate the emotional rollercoaster of relationships! 🌟 Being taken advantage of can feel like relationship whiplash. Once, I realized I was being used for my unending emotional support without any reciprocity. It hit me like a ton of bricks during a conversation when I realized it was all about them, always. My response was—surprise—communication! I opened up about my feelings and set firmer boundaries. Remember, love should be a two-way street, not a one-lane highway! 🚗💨

CB-Raido-Time · Answer

Yes one constantly talked about her x's one in particular always showing his picture she had in her walled constantly talking about guys hitting on her at work while going behind my back stating I was only temporary until something better came along. One day she called out of the blue told me she wanted to break up and it was agreed on. She called a couple or so weeks later saying she wanted to get back and no way.

She gave every reason to at least suspect she either did cheat or she wanted to cheat. The second one she cheated constantly and was caught in the act more than once she cheated with a friend months later he called to get it off his chest so to speak and he did that. The relationship with her ended that day and I never looked back never had a relationship again 39 years ago this month in fact.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. I cut her off pretty much instantly. No discussion, no explanation. She stalked me for two years. Not because she loved me. But because of what I brought to her life and it didn't end on her terms. I loved the person I thought she was. But the reality was that person was only in my head. I gave no quarter because I knew if I did she would turn it on me. Finally after 2 years she threw in the towel and then announced she was cutting me off.😆

Sal_Monella · Answer

All three ex-marriages. They just wanted a meal ticket or rescue from the home plantation. This is not a race thing.

exitseven · Answer

I have been shamelessly used as a sex object. She got what she wanted from me and callously cast me aside.

mysteriousN · Answer

Are you talking love relationships or are you talking business relationships, friendships, family bonds, hell?

MOUTHWASHING · Answer

Not yet but i know i will in my current relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, never, mostly because I never had a relationship.

HelenaHandbasket · Answer

Yes, but I liked it.

Abbycado · Answer

Can’t say that I have.

avery58 · Answer

Haven't we all?

Anonymous · Answer

Yes he didn't have a job so he always needed money

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

What lad hasn't?

Excelelliott16 · Answer

Everybody has been in that season severally

Anonymous · Answer

Yes.

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