People of GAG, what does submission mean to you?

[worldscolide]

My wife and I had this conversation recently and I really like how she put it.

“Submission isn’t about being weak,” “It’s about trusting someone enough to let them lead sometimes. It’s about recognizing that strength comes in different forms.” “I’ve spent my whole life fighting to prove I’m strong. But there’s strength in vulnerability too, in letting someone else take control sometimes. " " and trust me on this, even though you lead our home, I know you always listen to me when I need you to. "

[Finchie40]

Pretty Much what your wife said is how I see it. I will only be in a relationship with a submissive girl , non submissive girls’ are better off finding themselves a Simp , because she isn’t good at all for a masculine dominant man. I experienced it before , and never again. Submissive girls’ look up to their man and value and appreciate and respect her man. A girl that barely respects you , you are best to kick her ass to the curb or let some other guy have her. Submissive girls’ know how to treat a man , she stands by his side and feels safe with him she respects him the same way she wants to be respected in return. When a submissive girl feels safe and protected and secure with a man , she has no problem getting on her knees for him in the bedroom or doing what he says to do in bed. She loves being dominated and intimacy and affection isn’t an issue whatsoever. She wants you the same way you should want her. So if you have a submissive girl , keep her by your side as much as possible , she will bring happiness into your life , not misery

[Plugs]

U do understand a dominant man protects and provides for his women? Paying for her in all possible ways

[Finchie40]

Yes , I am a protector and a provider but she also has to do her part as being a partner , not a user , if she expects me to pay for everything and doesn’t work whatsoever , she isn’t a partner , she is a user. If she doesn’t have a job, then her job is to take care of the house and when I get home from work , I will jump in with the chores as well, but if she is just sitting on her ass she is in for a ride awakening

[Plugs]

Now u wanna be partners

[Finchie40]

LOL gotta get to know you first

[mysteriousNicholas]

The one partner rules the roost, consensually.
I don't mean the wife-beater types either.
Some women get off having their man in charge of the relationship, even choosing house designs and cars, the same way some men want their woman to wear the pants 👖

[mysteriousNicholas]

I've seen countless times women who run the show over their male partners. Really - they are the boss 💍 not my preference, i would always be the boss, consensually

[sage2021]

Well, what happens when you are a submissive girl/woman and you let him be in charge of paying the bills on time and he screws it up and then SHE takes that job back from him and SHE does it righ?
Then she sees him being in charge while she's being submissive and he just isn't capable of doing his jobs at home and then little by little she ends up doing everything and working a job.
That's what happened to me.

[sage2021]

Thank you for the MHO 😀 💓

[DishLady]

Lovers submit to each other all the time, opening their most vulnerable parts (physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually) to each other all the time. She’s right… it requires strength, courage, wisdom, commitment (building mutual trust).

[TrueConfection]

Simple; giving over to another’s will. I submit my will to God. Sometimes we submit to our spouse (both directions).

[andreasderjuengere]

I see two types of 'submission':

- the one that surrenders without 'fighting' albeit knowing it better = negative

- the one that avoids confrontation where it's pointless = positive

[mysteriousNicholas]

I like avoiding confrontation and it's the sort of quality I would want in a submissive woman who shares the trait - two happy peaceful peas in a pod 😋😇 sure sounds better than agro-couples 😡💢

[mysteriousNicholas]

(aggressive couples/bickering types - I don't feed off of debate) 😁

[andreasderjuengere]

@mysteriousNicholas - Isn't what you name 'submission' rather" integration?

[mysteriousNicholas]

Bro I don't know I don't work here 🤔🥳🤔 joke joke have a good week 😉

[Agape93]

It means they're trusting me to take control and give them a good time.

[Plugs]

True. Are u a dominant?