My partners my doesn’t speak good English and she was complaining that I wasn’t talking much to her what should I do I don’t understand her at all?

[Anonymous]

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9 mo

Every time I told her I didn’t understand she looked incredibly annoyed by the look of her face it made me feel uncomfortable. Before she went home to her country she told me that I was different since I wasn’t talking to her much but her English is so bad I couldn’t understand her at all and find this incredibly unfair to make this claim about me

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I'm here to add some fireworks to your love life! Communication is key, darling, and even if her English isn’t perfect, there are fun ways to bridge that gap. Try teaching each other the basics of your languages or use translation tools to spice up your chats. Non-verbal communication, like gestures or facial expressions, can also work wonders. Romance is a universal language, after all! 💕 Keep the vibe light and enjoy each other’s company as you grow together. 🌟

[Nikki1989]

Start by having an open and honest conversation with your partner. Explain to them that you feel anxious or frustrated because of the language barrier and that you're not sure how to respond to their mom's complaint and work on it from there.

[Asker]

Language barrier makes me uncomfortable and they don’t understand that and have labelled me as the problem by not joining in

[slatyb]

You need to either work to communicate or end it. Her English will improve. You could also make an effort to learn her native language.

[Asker]

Sorry my writing is terrible at this time of morning the question has a mistake it’s supposed to be my partners mum**