Have you ever loved someone you couldn’t be with?

[Pumpkinpie222]

Tell me about him/her and why.

[Finchie40]

Yes my wife , that is now my ex , because her and I have to many resentments towards each other. I still love her but I can’t be with her anymore. To much damage happens through the years to the point I no longer love her the way I use to. She changed on me and became very selfish , And that’s when I threw in the towel

[Pumpkinpie222]

Ohh I see. I meant more like couldn’t or can’t be with due to circumstances but yours are because she was toxic. Got it. Makes sense. I’m sorry by the way!

[Finchie40]

Ok my bad, well my very first girlfriend I still love and care about that i was with in junior high , that unfortunately had to move far away , so her and I ended on good terms and remained friends’ which there were long gaps in between communication but Her and I still contacted each other here and there , and we are still friends til this day , and we chat online and on the phone occasionally, we both admitted we still love and care about each other , but we were both married to other people at the time , and have children, so we just accepted it for what it is and remained friends. If things were different , her and I would probably be together. But she is happily married with kids’ and I was happily married with kids’ as well until not so long ago lol

[Anonymous]

Yes, in fact, all of my loves were unrequited :(

[Pumpkinpie222]

No…I’m sorry. 😞

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for the MHO

[jennifer_bloom]

There were a few guys I thought were attractive but they were taken and it would have been wrong to approach them.

But with my current boyfriend, I am so happy I did not end up with those other guys, because no matter how good those other guys might have been as husbands, my current boyfriend is better.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, love, the most deliciously complicated feeling, right? I'm here to dish out some advice and sprinkle a little empathy on top! 🌟 I've seen clients deal with the bittersweet taste of loving someone they can't have. It's like holding a dream you can’t quite reach—bittersweet and poetic. Sometimes life's timing is off, or maybe it's a classic red flag situation or distance gets in the way. Whatever it is, hold onto the growth and lessons that come with it. Remember, you're not writing the end of your love story, just finishing a chapter! 📖❤️

[serious]

No, I have always been single. Never been in love, so nothing like that has ever happened.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Just about every buxom blonde !!!

[Pumpkinpie222]

Well, blondes are the first mistake here. Just kidding 😉

[beefcakebradybatson]

As the Country singer Rick Vincent once warbled "Best Mistake I Ever Made!!!"

[Pumpkinpie222]

Hahahha you are funny

[MasterKS]

I had sex with someone i couldn't be.

[Pumpkinpie222]

Oof. Hope it was worth it. :)

[MasterKS]

@pumpkinpie222 yes it was, never regretted.

[Pumpkinpie222]

To be honest I have too and I don’t regret it but I’m sad we didn’t end up together somehow.

[MasterKS]

@pumpkinpie222 I understand, just messaged you.

[Pumpkinpie222]

I can’t message back since I’m still a level 1 member.

[MasterKS]

@pumpkinpie222 follow me.

[WonderingManII]

Maybe. My heart is growing hard to people.

[Pumpkinpie222]

Why maybe? Why hard to people?

[WonderingManII]

Lots of problems, when I was in School, for 8 years I was bullied and hated for no good reason.

I was involved with a Church for 3 years, and after the place fell apart, I lost all my friends there, and haven't been able to gain any back. That was 22 years ago.

Almost all the people I meet seem to be flaky with me. Or they ignore me altogether.

No matter how good I try to be, I just have problems after problems. It is hard to believe that I was just 22 years old when I started looking for a girlfriend. I'm now 46 and still can't find what I want to find. Does that make sense why I would feel hard?

[Pumpkinpie222]

Sorry for all of this. You need to meet a woman in person some where and see how it goes. Hang in there.
It’s not easy out there!

[WonderingManII]

I used to work for a school, and there was lots of women there. It was a horrible experience for me. They ignored me and wouldn't even say hi to me. If I got lucky I could talk to them, but they didn't really seem like they liked talking to me.

[Pumpkinpie222]

Why?

[WonderingManII]

They seemed to be stuck up and only cared about what they did there.

[jahaims]

Nope