My boyfriend impregnanted me and has also impregnanted somebody else?

[layisha]

my boyfriend impregnated me and had already introduced me to his family because he was willing to marry me but unfortunately he came to tell me that he impregnated someone else too
he only wanted to marry me after i was pregnant and he claims that the other lady only recently discovered about the pregnancy. but the other girl claims they have been in a relationship since last year and that she once had a miscarraige for him earliar this year meaning this is her second time being impregnanted by him. his here apologising am confused and i don't know how to feel about this whole situation, any advise?

[Finchie40]

Be careful who you spread your legs for , especially without a condom or being on birth control. Overall you dug your own grave and it’s up to you to get out of it , So you can choose to either stay with him or kick him to the curb and file for child support or you and the other girl can just accept it for what it is and let him be a father to both babies , you don’t have to stay in a relationship with him , you would be wise not to in my opinion , because he will cheat on you again in a matter of time , so just go after him for child support and let him see the baby if he wants to.

[SueShe]

You were just fornicating with a womanizer, a player, a red flag and a person with no morals and dignity.

There is not much advice people can give you. You did what you should never have done in the first place. You apparently did not check the integrity of that person and now, you are paying the price for it.

He will not marry you. He will not marry the other girl. He will simply do anything possible in his power to get out of helping you and this other girl. financially.

You have no other option than to bring this pregnancy to term and be a single parent. You don't want to murder an unborn child, do you?

[layisha]

but he already introduced me to his family. maybe he will marry me and not the other girl?

[SueShe]

I would not be on that and if he marries you, he will have to pay alimony to the other girl for 18 years. Are you OK with that?

[Anonymous]

I was in the same situation. She and I both agreed to share him. He supports us financially and he owns two houses right next to each other that has been modified with internal doors so there is access. He supports us both financially and is a good father to our children.

[Anonymous]

this guy is either really good looking or really wealthy to get into a situation like this

either way if he's stupid enough to do this, might as well take child support off him or make him prove his loyalty to you

no need to end a life because of a father's irresponsibility

[AI Opinion]

Oh, lovebombing disasters! 😅 It sounds like you've hit a major relationship plot twist here. What a tangled mess! It seems like he's juggling hearts and not very well, might I add. The whole multiple pregnancies and hidden relationships scream red flags. Your feelings are super valid here. Think about your happiness and future. His actions are sketchy, and you deserve honesty and respect. Time to put your happiness first and make choices that align with your heart's desires. Sending you all the positive vibes as you navigate this emotional maze! 💖

[layisha]

awww thank you so much for your opinion, it really so much to me. am really heart broken at the same time still in love.

[Twalli]

One of my classmates in college had a son from a guy who also got another girl pregnant at around the same time. He married that other girl because she was pregnant. It's hard to deal with, because you know he either cheated on you or with you to get someone else pregnant around the same time.

[Berethor]

You like that he a stud that impregnanted multiple women? if not then you might consider an abortion, because being a single mom would make you very unattractive.

[Abbycado]

How are you 29 years old and don't know how to feel about this situation? Smh

[EmmaMary]

Do you know, if I was your age, I would be so embarrassed in asking this question. smh

[OneViewpoint]

This is your FAFO moment. Best of luck with Tyrone and his other baby mama.

[Anonymous]

“I have three 8-year-olds!”

[MasterKS]

Sounds like his semen is so eager to knock off ladies.

[katiesmuff]

Am I the only one that suspects TROLL here.

[EmmaMary]

You are most definitely not alone @katiesmuff

[jazzy34]

I don't think so. Unfortunately, stuff like this happens all the time.

[beefcakebradybatson]

DUMP DAT DUDE !!!

[jazzy34]

You're with a liar and a cheater. Run FAST.

[Anonymous]

You need a better boyfriend.

[jahaims]

Don't let trash nut in you