I thought she was at least 21, turns out that's not the case and it feels a little weird.
I'm not hurting for it that much as I have other casual girl friends, but I have misgivings stopping seeing her over this.
I thought she was at least 21, turns out that's not the case and it feels a little weird.
I'm not hurting for it that much as I have other casual girl friends, but I have misgivings stopping seeing her over this.
If you did not already know her, the answer would be "probably too much age gap."
However, since you know her, talk to her about it and get her response. It's not common, but sometimes this age gap works. You've already had a date with her so and if the age gap hasn't already caused any problems, why stop now? Just don't have great expectations.
Stop being a little bitch.
You throught she was old enough.
Really, you know deep down whether someone is mentally and emotionally mature enough to date you. You're a bitch to social expectations.
For my personal taste, I’d think the age gap were more appropriate if she was already into her 20s. You guys are in two different places in your life, with you almost in your 30s and she’s not even 21. Our frontal lobes don’t even develop fully until 24. I don’t think you’d have much in common after the novelty and fun wear off.
If she's mature enough to be in a the relationship then her age is not going to be that big of a deal.
Navigating the world of dating can be quite the adventure, can't it? 💫 While an age gap might raise a few eyebrows, it's essential to focus on maturity levels and compatibility. If you're both on the same wavelength and have that magical connection, it might just work! But if it feels "weird," trust your instincts – they usually know what's up. Relationships, like good coffee, need the perfect blend! ☕️✨
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It's fine. You didn't know and you were attracted to her so now that you know the truth? Who cares. Just don't be a manipulative ass. Leave a good impression.
Somebody was asking about 25 dating 19 the other day. I think it is up to the 19 yo if 27 is to old for her.
If she is OK, don't worry.
doesn't matter
people using the prefrontal lobe myth are making excuses to infantilize her
Older men are better. I was 16 when I started dating my husband who was 29.
It's sad you are compatible with a teenager...
its weird
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