How do you genuinely feel when your partner leaves to go on an all girls or all guys vacation. Like a Hen or Stag break for example?

[CubaPirate]

[dustybiker2]

They come back all riled up for me. 🥰

[CubaPirate]

Excellent 👍

[douride2]

I have no issues with it.

[douride2]

Thanks for a MHO.

[AI Opinion]

My aim here is to sprinkle some love advice and keep that spark alive! 🌟 When your partner heads off for a getaway with friends, it's all about trust and understanding. It's healthy and normal to have mixed feelings, but it's important to remember that space makes the heart grow fonder 😘. Use this time to indulge in some self-care or maybe a little solo adventure of your own. Plus, absence makes those reunion hugs even sweeter! 💖

[Finchie40]

If the relationship is great between us then no problem at all , but if the relationship has some unresolved issues then that could be a problem , especially if all of a sudden they were going away on a trip without you , in most cases they are up to no good

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Finchie40 you'll be able to remember this film quote 📽️🎥 "Jim never has a second cup of coffee at home" - and it's not The Office. It's that old airplane movie from just shy of 1980. The way his wife remarks it in her voice over with her expression like 🙃😗👀🥴 - Airplane / Flying High in other regions.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Finchie40 and here's the coffee ☕☕😜

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Finchie40 I guess we'll never know why her husband decided to have a second cup of coffee on the flight - was Jim secretly meeting another woman when they land - was Jim secretly having an affair with the staff - I guess we'll never know 😜😔 film fiction they leave out

[OlderAndWiser]

I would be suspicious of a girls' vacation because my wife is not that close with more than a few women, but I do trust my wife. Every year, I encourage her to take a month off of work and return to China to visit her family and friends. She is leaving for China again later this month.

[DishLady]

It happens. What are you supposed to do, chain them to the wall and keep them from seeing their friends? You don’t have to be glued to one another 24/7… and if you DO then you’re not in a healthy relationship.

[AviatorTom]

Fine with me. My wife occasionally visits her female friends, and is out of town for a week or two. She comes back more relaxed. And when she's gone, I can do whatever I want.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@AviatorTom when i read that, I was humbled, and I also wanted to think of my commentary already of "it's good to hear she comes back relaxed - surely she's a party animal 🥳🥳 woop woop 😎" party 🎉

[mysteriousNicholas]

@AviatorTom "party rockers in the house tonight" 🎵🎶

[jennifer_bloom]

I trust him not to cheat, cause he shows me all the time that he is committed to me.

[dwreborn]

Iam always ok with this u need to give ur partner time and space to enjoy time with their friends its necessary so they don't lose who they are and why you feel for them in the first place if u try to stop them from hanging with friends it will turn to a resentful and controlled relationship let ur partner have their own time u will find out it makes ur relationship stronger

[mysteriousNicholas]

@CubaPirate hmm, I have no partner, nor had a partner, so I could only answer in the hypothetical that - my woman would probably be pretty boring, a non-drinker, non-smoker/non-vaper etc - so I wouldn't have anything to worry about 😁 and after all, ladies travel in packs, so she'd be fine from any unwanted male attention

[mysteriousNicholas]

Again, I'm just a Reindeer 🦌 myself personally 🛷🥳

[Fireguy17]

I trust her, she has never done anything to doubt her.
She is going out east to a class reunion in October, which also means she is leaving me alone for the same amount of town.
I work out of town a lot April through October, my ex wife cheated on me when I was at work, and we were both home.
If someone is going to cheat they will find a way to cheat.

[beenherebefore]

My Partner has been to few of those trips throughout our relationship. I have no issue he's always kept me informed of what's going on and reaches out whenever he's free.

[msmissydc]

No problem at all. If its planned ahead I can make plans myself. Its worse when he travels for work which is often more spontaneous and that means I sometimes sit home alone if I had nothing planned and if I can go with him.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@msmissydc towards the end of that sentence - in that scenario - do you daydream or think "I wonder what he's up to" or nope? Sometimes I let my mind wander

[msmissydc]

Its not that I have nothing to do. But less planned time means a less regular schedule so I do random stuff.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@msmissydc do you two ever wash dishes together? Ever? That may seem an unexpected, even with a dishwasher modern living question, however - have you? And have you each taken turns washing versus drying with a tea towel, said dishes? Genuinely curious - yes, yes I wash dishes with gloves at my home sinks. Really 💪🧤

[msmissydc]

Yes,. Though most often the one who cooks has free time when it comes to dishwashing and the other way around. But when we cook together we do the dishes together as well. It's mainly knives, woods tuff and big things that are not fit for the dishwasher but yeah do it, although not often.
When it comes to drying and washing though its most often set. We rarely switch that up when we do it together.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@msmissydc 💍💍 it's what makes a relationship a grounded and healthy one - "if we don't even do the dishes together or sleep in the same bed together, are we even a partnership" - 😍 - have a blessed day and weekend 🙏💞 enjoy, you two lovebirds

[i_Jedi]

Honestly, I’d feel totally fine with it as long as there’s trust and respect. Everyone deserves time with their friends, and space can actually make you miss each other more.

[genericname85]

absolutely happy. i'd be happy to have some time for myself.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I never dated someone where I wasn't friends with their friends AND they were the type to go on trips like that

[DrPepper12]

Have a great time sweetheart! Enjoy yourself! Call me later!

[lorenzomichael]

I’m not insecure at all. She can go wherever she wants with all her girlfriends. I wouldn’t give a fuck. I trust her to the fullest because if I couldn’t do that, I wouldn’t be with her and vice versa.

[Jennz6]

I don’t care about him, but I certainly would love an all girls vacation 💯💃

[CubaPirate]

What about your girlfriend 🤔

[Jennz6]

She’s coming to

[DonaldDarko]

I wouldn't know, if I went somewhere it would be with my wife.

[LiamJHayden]

I don't feel anything because if she does, we're done.

[queenofcardio]

Doesn't bother me. I go on girl trips

[mysteriousNicholas]

@queenofcardio always a water bottle and a yoga match in tow, right? 👍▶️

[mysteriousNicholas]

@queenofcardio my typo, *yoga *mat. Silly me - I ruined my wit 😅

[queenofcardio]

@mysteriousNicholas haha no actually. I don't like yoga 😅

[katiesmuff]

It would be fine with me!

[Anonymous]

I'm single, so I don't have to worry about that.

[Nikki1989]

No problem at all.

[HighValue]

Those are mostly for women to cheat.

[CubaPirate]

Are you speaking from experience 🤔

[Markella7]

Yes they need them time.

[DexWest]

She’s cheating