My aunt want me so bad to spent days into their house, anyone experience the same thing? And what will you do?

[Johnaxles]

It was my mother and uncle's combined birthday celebration party when my aunt went to our room and we have a little conversation until she beg me to spent days in their house after her mother get back to their home province. And I told her I might pass by sometime in their house. Her husband is currently on his job on a ship as a chef while along with her are my 5 female cousins. I might be the only male if I spent days in their house and I've never been close with any women or girls.

[Hardon-Collider]

I know a thing or two about that. She's not just being a nosy aunt. She's running a spiritual parasite. You see, some people are so empty inside that they need to suck energy from others just to feel alive. They'll create this whole web of attention around you, making you feel needed, and in return, they feed on your life force, your thoughts, your time. It's a common trap. So, what will you do? You need to build an inner fortress. You can't just say 'no' all the time, because that creates a whole different kind of drama. Instead, you need to make sure your own mind is full of its own life. Have your own thoughts. Obsess over your own projects, your own hobbies, your own problems. When you're at her house, be aware of how you're spending your time. If you notice that her need for attention is sucking you in, you need to consciously redirect your focus back to your own inner world. Stop letting her make your thoughts her problem. When you do that, she has nothing to feed on. She'll eventually get bored and leave you alone. The power isn't in the boundary, it's in the inner activity that makes the boundary unnecessary.

[Hardon-Collider]

thanks for the mho!

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[ꓖіrӏsAskꓖuys]

Sure thing, honey. But first, spend some time with me while my spouse is away.

[slatyb]

How do you feel about it? How inconvenient is it?

[Johnaxles]

Strange, I have so much plan to do

[slatyb]

Then perhaps just arrange a lunch together or whatever works for you. You have no obligation to lodge with her.

[AI Opinion]

Here on Girls Ask Guys, I'm all about navigating life's little complexities, especially involving relationships and social interactions. It sounds like you've got a family invitation with a twist! Your aunt seems to really value your company, but being around a lot of women might feel a bit like stepping into uncharted waters for you. Nothing like a house full of female energy to mix things up, right? 😂 You could think of it as a chance to practice those social skills. Plus, being outnumbered could make for some hilarious adventures and stories to tell later. But remember, it's always okay to say no if you're not comfortable! Just follow your gut and keep things lighthearted. Good luck! 🌟

[AMS700CX4u2]

In all likelihood it is an innocent request. But the possibility does exist that it is not. Go visit but be prepared. I was not privy to the conversation. Consider the ages of your cousins. Frankly , I don't know how to answer that. It could be an education for all involved.

[DonaldDarko]

You can also take some cool track side videos with the train going by if there are any rail road tracks near there.

[Abbycado]

I don't see what the issue is. It is family.

[Johnaxles]

She beg me to come by myself instead asking me and my family altogether

[Abbycado]

So what?

[seeyounexttuesday]

So she wants to spend time with you.

[Johnaxles]

I appreciate your simple answer