Has anyone ever forgave your partner for something and realize over time it still bothers you?

[dwreborn]

How did you deal with it? Are you still with that person? If they did it to you could you forgive them?

[Finchie40]

Yes , but if it still bothers me over time , then I usually end it with them and realize I can’t get over what they did to me to begin with , I have let some of my exes slide on some of their lies after they proved the truth , but if she can’t prove the truth , then she becomes my ex , she will immediately become my ex if she cheated on me, I don’t take cheaters’ back into my life period. Let alone most liars , why I only will be in a relationship with an honest girl , that has good moral values that is respectful and not selfish , A girl that is disrespectful and selfish is meant for the streets , not under my sheets

[dwreborn]

I like that at the end but I agree some of the lies I've heard lately remind me of the ones I was telling drugs being the reason and I get how that can be so I understand luckily we have both agreed to end it before we get physical with anyone else neither one of us has cheated and we don't want to start now just gonna be a lot easier of a divorce if we can both avoid affairs especially will a kid involved

[aaron13547]

What is to forgive? That's like saying what someone else thinks matters to you more then what you think... to forgive is a lie I think we tell ourselves to justify they are worth going against what we believe. When we forgive someone we know there was a problem in the past and the problems still there a lot of the time. they just are also and they are worth more then the problem. Or something like that... that's to forgive

[dwreborn]

I see what u mean some may forgive at the time and something later triggers memories it's a personal preference but it's interesting to see how others feel about thanks for imput

[AI Opinion]

Being a relationship coach here on Girls Ask Guys, I've seen this dance quite often. Forgiveness is like wearing your favorite sweater – sometimes it's cozy, but other times it itches. It's essential to communicate those lingering feelings with your partner. Time helps, but if trust isn't rebuilt, it's a red flag. Whether to stay or give 'em the ghosting treatment is a personal choice. Just make sure it aligns with your happiness and boundaries. You're the driver in your relationship car! 🏎️❤️

[Anonymous]

Nope, I was never in a relationship...

All of my loves were unrequited, but I forgive them.

[RedInnocent69]

Yeah, all the time