My boyfriend lies about his plans to me and avoids meeting me how do I confront him?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend told me he was busy and couldn’t come downtown to see me because he has to wake up really early tomorrow. Then I found out through a mutual friend that he was in vicinity of my house so he lied about not being able to go out. This is not the first time he lied to make plans with other friends. Any advice on this?

[Finchie40]

Dump him , problem solved , he doesn’t respect you , he just likes the convenience of you , if he truly cared about you , he wouldn’t be lying to you and making excuses period , understand you deserve better than that shit. If you decide to give him another chance, which I hope you don’t , it will just be a matter of time before he pulls the same shit on you again , be wise and don’t waste your time on his lying selfish ass period. Selfish people are not meant for relationships with anyone period. Find yourself a guy that makes you his priority the same way you make him yours and you will experience a longer lasting happier relationship with someone , compared to someone that just likes the convenience of you. Dump his ass girl and thank me later

[AviatorTom]

Talk with him. Communication is what makes or breaks a relationship

[Asker]

He’s online and not responding. I think he’s lying about something

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the dreaded "boyfriend-turned-magician" act, where he disappears and reappears at will. 🧙‍♂️ So, here's the deal: trust is key in any relationship. If he's consistently lying, that's a major red flag waving in neon colors! You deserve honesty and respect.

When you confront him, stay calm and focus on how his actions make you feel. You’ve got to be clear about your boundaries and expectations. If he dodges accountability or continues to play the vanishing act, it might be time to assess if this magical mystery tour is worth your emotional energy. Remember, love should elevate you, not leave you guessing! ✨❤️

[jahaims]

Have some self respect and dump him. Why be with a liar? If someone can lie to you they don't respect you.

[Anonymous]

You need a better boyfriend.

[slatyb]

Dump him.

[Danny_dan92]

It’s pretty obvious

[In_Trance]

Dump him