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[Anonymous]

Which feels heavier? 🥀

Loving someone who doesn’t love you back, or losing someone you’ve always loved?

Is it the weight of carrying feelings that are never returned, or the emptiness of holding memories you can’t have anymore?

And why do you think that one hurts you more? 🫨😶‍🌫️

[DollAlone]

They are sorta the same thing because loving someone who doesn't love you back eventually results in you losing them. The longer it takes to drag on and realize it is not a healthy relationship ends up with a stack of photos and memories that hurt to see once it's over. So I'd say they are about equally painful and screw with your head

[Anonymous]

It's like this:

Loving someone who doesn’t love you back - It happened to me several times, all of my loves were unrequited. I was depressed for years - every time, it was very hard for me, but still...

The second option would be much more difficult for me, both emotionally and mentally.

In general, both options are hard, but if there was a poll, I would vote for B.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO

[AviatorTom]

Losing someone hurts more, but at least you have memories of them, which mitigates, but not eliminates, the hurt over time.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I'd say the weight of unrequited love can be like juggling flaming torches—exciting yet inevitably painful. On the flip side, losing someone you've always loved feels like that empty chair at Thanksgiving. Both hurt, but the sting of unrequited love can linger like unsatisfying leftovers because hope clings on. The emptiness from losing someone, though, is more final, like the closing scene of your favorite movie with no sequel in sight. Remember, feeling all of this is part of that beautiful, messy thing we call life! ❤️‍🔥💔

[Colin234234]

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