Why did he buy expensive gifts for me when he knows I won't get them?

[Anonymous]

There is a man who loves me, knowing we will never be together. I made that clear. I was told by someone close to him that he loves me like crazy and that he bought me many expensive things—gifts that will never reach me. He said he would never tell me about them because he is sure I will accept them especially now that he can't find me.
His love is a silent testament to longing—an act of giving without expectation, without hope of reaching them to me. It’s the pain of loving from afar, knowing that his affection exists only in his gestures, never in the reality of us being together.
There is no hope in his love—only the pure, unwavering truth of his feelings, and the ache of a love that remains forever unreachable. Are his acts driven from emotional outbursts, emotional release, emotional expression or a way of feeling close to me?

[Finchie40]

He sounds like a desperate fool , especially loving someone he has never met in person before , and the fact that he barely knows who you are , he is just in love of the fantasy of you, that he has made up in his head.

[Asker]

We met. Lol.
We were coworkers

[Finchie40]

Ok I read your post again lol he still sounds desperate if he hasn’t seen you in awhile and not taking the hint that you aren’t interested in him

[loveslongnails]

News flash... all the things you are poetically describing -- that's not love, that's fantasy, or even some kind of cosplay. Him "knowing" you will never be together makes it 100% safe to do whatever outlandish expressions of spending or gifting he chooses. Frankly, it seems like a foolish waste of money that could be better spent on giving it to someone in need, or a charity. There's no point in buying gifts for someone who will never see them; it's just self-indulgence.

This man may think he loves you, and you may think that too, but based on the little information I see, I sure don't. To me, it sounds more like misguided obsession, and not necessarily with you as a person, but with the whole extravagant fantasy.

[Nikki1989]

His silent, hopeless gifting is a complex psychological coping mechanism that allows him to process his feelings while respecting the boundary you set. Since you've made it clear you won't be together, he cannot express his love through traditional means, but it all reeks of fakeness. He is trying to buy his way into your life.

[AvaRay]

Sometimes, love exists quietly in gestures rather than words..

Giving without expectation, even knowing it may never reach the other, is a pure testament to care n longing..

It’s not about control or outbursts, it’s about staying connected, honoring someone deeply, even from afar.. 🥹💞

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the mysterious ways of the heart! It sounds like he's channeling his intense feelings into gifts, expressing a love that goes beyond words. His actions might be a form of emotional release, giving his emotions a physical form. It's like his heart's on a mission, even knowing the destination is out of reach—a beautiful, albeit bittersweet, journey. Love can be a strange cocktail of emotion, and his way of connecting with you is through these grand gestures. Sometimes love's purpose is in the giving, rather than the receiving. 😘

[Mangospacho]

I like that a robot knows exactly what your boyfriend’s intentions were.

[ohsheeT]

May it just give him life and love drama. ..

And since he know it will never be. Then he and take it any direction of time.
Pretending something. To give himself a life

[Tarifa]

It's infatuation, a deep crush. Not love.

He feels attracted to you, and even if he knows this attraction or admiration is in essence unreasonable, he still feels the same about you. These feelings can easily become obsessive. I think that's the point he has reached now.

[dwreborn]

Not sure but if he really loves you it takes a lot to put that out of a guys head some guys I guess but if you love a girl you do whatever it takes to try to change her mind especially if she has loved him in the past

[TonyMetal___86]

He's simply stupid, maybe the incoming pain will teach him a lesson about not loving someone who doesn't love him back, especially you Armenian girl, never saw you in love before 🤣🤣

[Miristheiss]

He is a fool.

If there is no shot he should move on and pursue love marriage wisely. Go for girls he has a shot with.

[DryGermanGuy]

You are north of 30 already. How many more years do you intent to keep up this circus?

[chenyu]

I'm not sure, what you can't have is always good. As for husband and wife: I think they should share weal and woe, life and death, and grow old together.

[MikeTheBartender]

Some guys just don't get it, is really nothing more to say. Sad.

[roy_ricky09]

That's not love my friend...
Seems you are made to believe it is, but it's not. Or maybe you want to believe it is.

[msg321]

I think he thinks you can change your mind and you will be together one day and those expensive gifts make you change your mind.

[msc545]

He is trying to bribe you into sleeping with him.

[Anonymous]

He cares more about you than you care about him.

[Anonymous]

I was in this situation before i did it because i genuinely love her truly deeply love her

[ChicoFromThe305]

This dude is just wylin gang

[Anonymous]

He doesn’t love u lol

[roy_ricky09]

True... That's not love