Sex or marriage... if you had to choose one ONLY?

[rominuser]

If you had to choose between getting/having frequent sex without marriage... or being married but having NO sex at all..

What would you choose/prefer?

Getting/having frequent sex without marriage

Being married but having NO sex at all

[AvaRay]

If I had to choose, I would choose to marry someone I truly love, share a healthy n balanced sexual life with my future husband, n finally be blessed with children who are born healthy.. ☺️🌺

[rominuser]

That's an ideal case..
So..
But if you had to choose between these two options only then?

[AvaRay]

If I had to choose, I would still choose marriage with someone I truly love..

Physical intimacy is important, but for me, it’s most meaningful when shared in a committed, respectful, n trusting relationship..

Without that foundation, frequent intimacy would feel hollow n incomplete, no matter how frequent or convenient it may be..

True fulfillment comes from a bond that’s grounded in love, respect, n mutual understanding, not just physical connection.. 😊🙏🏻

[rominuser]

So just initial sex for reproduction.. and then absolutely No sex or nudity in marriage..
That's ok?

[AvaRay]

For me.. Intimacy isn’t merely physical, it’s about love, trust, n mutual respect..

Shared with the right person, it deepens the bond n nurtures the heart..

Without meaning or commitment, it risks being empty..

True closeness quietly shapes a relationship into something profound, meaningful, n impossible to overlook.. 😊

[Lipsandhips]

Obviously the first option.

[rominuser]

Why so?

[Lipsandhips]

I love sex

[rominuser]

Even without commitment?

[Lipsandhips]

I mean I could have a boyfriend and we could just have a live in relationship. So we would be committed without marriage.

[Finchie40]

Frequent sex without marriage , because A sexless marriage or relationship , doesn’t work with me whatsoever , my ass would dump her or divorce her for someone else

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Finchie40 I'm astounded a significant portion of women, supposed women, voted A above

[Finchie40]

Yea because there are a lot of females’ that love sex as well

[TonyMetal___86]

Marriage 👍🏻

[rominuser]

Without sex?

[TonyMetal___86]

With sex ofc but you insisted if it's going to be only sex or only marriage, i chose marriage because marriage lasts and it's more important than sex!

[rominuser]

But if marriage was without sex?

[TonyMetal___86]

It's very hard but i accept if she's a good wife who truly loves me...

Thanks for the mho

[AI Opinion]

As your relationship coach on GAG, I'm here to spice things up! 😉 It's all about what you value more: the electrifying intimacy or the deep bond of marriage. Frequent sex brings fun and thrill, while a sexless marriage might lack that passion but offers strong companionship and love. Personally, I'd say look for love that makes both heart and body feel alive! Whatever stirs your soul, my friend! 💖

[mysteriousNicholas]

Ironically I voted A because that would've described my alternative 20s - just monogamous and unmarried yet having a banging good time with just one near and dear woman lovebird - who doesn't want a ring 💍

[mysteriousNicholas]

But alas, I remain single. I don't believe in sleeping around - too many of these viruses 🦠🦠

[Flower7]

I enjoyed the illustration of the viruses lol

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Flower7 it's so ultra modern, right? 🦠 🦠 🦟 Those emoji's are advancing so much - Android you superior soul to me 📱🤳

[MJVillarama]

Tough one! I’d probably go with marriage, guess I’m all about that deeper connection, even without sex.

[dwreborn]

This is a no brainer you can't have a relationship without sex thats how you connect souls and body without that its just a friendship

[rominuser]

Are you serious 😲?

[dwreborn]

I think so not friends but your spouse

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I’m the outlier as I would love to have a sexless marriage. It’s incredibly overrated

[rominuser]

Have you ever had sx?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I have, did not enjoy. And don’t give me that whole “Oh, you just haven’t met the right one” thing. I’m so sick of hearing it

[rominuser]

Tried only once with one man?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Men and women, don’t push it

[rominuser]

Comparatively was sex better and more enjoyable with men or women?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It’s the same

[Drumlin2001]

Not sure i ever want to get married, don't see any up side for me

[rominuser]

Never married?

[Drumlin2001]

Nope. Currently engaged and have 2 kids. But not sure it's actually worth going ahead with a wedding

[rominuser]

You have 3 kids without marriage?

[Drumlin2001]

2 kids yes

[Anonymous]

I never had either, but marriage is not obligatory, I'd rather have a normal relationship without the marriage.

[dougeats]

SEX and more SEX

[rominuser]

Any experience yet?

[bunniesrcute]

neither, both seem awful

[rominuser]

But if have to choose one?

[bunniesrcute]

then id choose suicide.

[RedInnocent69]

Sex. It’s just roommates, otherwise

[Jennz6]

Sex 💃💯

[rominuser]

With multiple partners or one?

[Flower7]

I thought you don’t like sex?

[rominuser]

@Flower7 😂😆.

[Flower7]

@rominuser Why is that funny?

[rominuser]

@Flower7 funny because who doesn't like sex?

[Flower7]

I don’t.

[rominuser]

@Flower7 ever tried it?

[Flower7]

Yeah

[rominuser]

@Flower7 with both?

[Flower7]

Only with men.

[Dylpicklebarfield1]

Mis Clicked But I Choose Neither