Have you come to terms with the idea that all men cheat?

[Anonymous]

1️⃣ The one who pretends she doesn’t see it.

She knows he’s entertaining other women, but she acts blind because “at least he comes home.” She values her peace, or the illusion of it, more than the truth.

2️⃣ The one who couldn’t handle it and left.

She packed her bags, probably raising kids on her own now, still holding out hope that she’ll find a man who’s different. Spoiler alert: she still believes loyalty exists.

3️⃣ The one who doesn’t know — yet.

She’s either naive, in love, or just not checking. She swears her man would “never do that,” and everyone just lets her live in that bubble… for now.

[Finchie40]

I believe everyone cheats one way or another , cheating isn’t just physical , it can be emotional to. Basically whatever you can do behind your partners’ back , makes you a cheater , keeping secrets from your partner is cheating , flirting with someone else behind your partners’ back is cheating. Lying to your partner is cheating , Even though it might seem innocent to you, it doesn’t mean your partner feels the same way. The problem with most people is the fact that they can’t take accountability for their own selfish actions or behaviors , it’s always someone else’s’ fault, but never their own. We can tell someone until we are blue in the face, that we aren’t a cheater , but it doesn’t mean shit , because they more than likely cheated one way or another on someone else . So all we can do as people , is learn from our mistakes , if we choose to. The saying , Once a cheater always a cheater means you will always be considered a cheater , even if you stopped cheating, I admit it took me awhile to accept the fact that I am and was a cheater , even though I no longer cheat or haven’t cheated in a long time , I still cheated before and it was my choice to never do it again to someone I love and care about , because I knew it was selfish and wrong of me to do. The bottom line is , barely anyone wants to be cheated on , and barely anyone can admit they cheated before , because they are afraid they will be judged and criticized for their selfish actions and behaviors, so they choose to bottle it up and act like it never happened , not realizing if they were just honest about it , others would accept their honesty maybe not everyone , but most will. Honesty is the key to having a healthy happy relationship with someone as long as they are honest with you , if you have to lie to your partner , then you actually don’t truly love your partner, you only love what you can receive from them but you only truly love yourself. Having that selfish mindset you will more than likely keep failing in relationships, because all you care about is yourself. Me personally chooses to be honest , because I want a partner that is honest as well , if she chooses to lie , then there is consequences to her actions, I will not stay in a relationship with a liar. Only users stay on relationships for their own selfish benefit , I have slept with married women and taken girls’ that lied to me and said they were single when really they weren’t single at all , that went back to their partners’ like nothing happened , unfortunately this type of shit happens more than we want to think about. Selfish people are not meant for relationships whatsoever, and unfortunately everyone has selfishness inside themselves , if you can’t remove that selfishness for your partner , donMt expect them to do the same for you

[AviatorTom]

I guess I have ruined your "all men cheat". Never cheated, and never will. And I know that I'm not alone.

[HollyK21]

I’m sure her ignorant response would be “maybe not yet but you will eventually. All men do, mine sure did” 💀.

[AviatorTom]

@HollyK21 At my age, I'm well past any desire to cheat. Just let me live in peace.

[HollyK21]

She’s blatantly ignoring your experience because now her logic’s gone out the window. It’s so incredibly immature and gross.

[HollyK21]

Have you ever emotionally cheated on your wife Tom? Since anon is too cowardly to respond to your comment directly and is asking under Abby’s question. She doesn’t get to just dismiss your experience and call you a liar.

[AviatorTom]

@HollyK21 To answer your question, you'd have to ask my wife. I have never intentionally emotionally cheated, but she may have interpreted some of the things I've said or done that way.

[HollyK21]

I’m sure you didn’t, Tom. I was a just glancing over Anons responses to the influx of men trying to tell her they don’t cheat. She’s insisting that she’s right and every man commenting is a liar, so this is definitely some anonymous trolling from “flowersareawesome22”. Ridiculous.

[Vevv123]

No, usually loyalty looks like peaceful homes and happy families, at least most of the time. It’s easier to notice the bad in the world than the good. The good doesn’t usually make noise, isn’t dramatic, or ruining families.

[Asker]

You sound like one of the ones that lives in their own bubble believing the world’s full of good. You have no idea what really goes on behind closed doors or behind unchecked phones.

[Nikki1989]

I learned the lesson when I was only 14, and it was confirmed again at 16 and 19. I assume most are just hardwired to do so and are so easily led into temptation. It is remarkably easy to make a man do something.

[Nikki1989]

Note: I said most, thankfully not ALL.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, let's dive into this spicy topic! I'm here to help unravel these relationship mysteries. 🕵️‍♂️ It's interesting how many stories circle around the idea that "all men cheat." Remember, sweeping generalizations can be misleading, lovebird! Trust and loyalty are the real superstars in a relationship. Sure, some folks may wander, but that doesn't mean every man will be ghosting off into the mist. It's about finding *your* person who makes those love butterflies dance. 🌟 Keep believing in those unicorns, babe, and don't settle for anything less than what makes your heart sing! ❤️

[Crankor]

They certainly all do not. You could take that assumption with girls too. Sometimes its a self created fear that makes you piece it together as such or a possibility but really it just leads to self sabatoge. The unfortunate thing is you just have to act like the other won't even if there are instances that seem sus. Unless its blatantly obvious.

[sportsman_MD]

Sorry for whomever hurt you and whatever he did, but… your statement is ridiculous. Not all men cheat.

[Asker]

It’s not, every man with the opportunity will do it. They just need the opportunity, if they haven’t done it, it’s because they haven’t had the chance.

[sportsman_MD]

I have the chance almost all the time and I don’t cheat on my girlfriend. My friend is married and he has opportunities but has never cheated. And we are not alone. But I will say, OP, that if this is how you think then I can see why you’ve been cheated on.

[DavyJ]

And your asinine and flawed assumption is based on what fact-based evidence? Presumably in your stupidity that women are without this flaw?

[Asker]

Some women cheat, but not all. All men cheat they don’t have the capacity to have self control. Of the opportunities comes they take it.

[sportsman_MD]

And she still has no evidence, only flawed logic. Ridiculous

[DavyJ]

She’s clearly thicker than a 6 foot solid concrete wall.

[Asker]

Clearly you don’t know me, but nice try trying to insult me. What exactly are you trying to say about thick women?

[DavyJ]

Just read the crap question. It clearly demonstrates any credibility. You can’t even prove BEYOND reasonable your argument.

[Anonymous]

Men dont tend to cheat emotionally. If someone is cheating on you emotionally they will soon cheat on you physically. Emotional cheating is the start of an affair, followed by leaving you for someone else.

[Asker]

Correct, men are weak emotionally.

[Opinion Owner]

In some regards but men can endure great hardships that would break any woman.

[Asker]

Yes they have more physical strength, but are weak internally. Women are the opposite.

[Opinion Owner]

Not so. There's a reason why there are 1 in 4 women on antidepressants.

[jazzy34]

No, because that's not true. WELCOME TO REALITY. No need to follow up. I'll see myself out. Toodles. :)

[jahaims]

You can only be around low quality men and are projecting your experience

[Anonymous]

That's not true. You just need a to find someone who's sole focus is on you.

[Asker]

That’s what they say. They find someone that says and thinks you’re their sole purpose, eventually get bored and cheat.

[Opinion Owner]

Not every guy is like that. Only the bad ones.

[linguistrosey]

She is a troll and you fell for it lol. Troll or a man with pink profile

[janemarie15]

No. HAHA not all men can cheat. Again, everyone has a decision and everyone can decide what they want to do.

[Anonymous]

nope but women do cheat more than men and have much more excuses for it

[Abbycado]

Lmao @HollyK21

[HollyK21]

The topic in itself it outrageous lol like has she come to terms with the fact that she’s narrow-minded?

[HollyK21]

**is

[Asker]

@HollyK21 some people are not willing to accept the truth.

[Abbycado]

Holly, I’m going to dinner. You have a good night with these fools. XD

[HollyK21]

Maybe that’s YOUR truth but not everyone else’s.

[HollyK21]

Enjoy Abby! Lol 💛

[Asker]

@HollyK21 Not mine, I’m not married, and not planning on it unless it’s a rich man that will at least provide for me and let me cry on a yacht. I’ve seen married men cheat and all of them do it.

[HollyK21]

So you’re just going to ignore a man coming forward and telling you he’s never cheated? Probably not, your logic of “all men cheat” goes right out the fucking window. You’re just bored and rage baiting.

[HollyK21]

Now it’s two men. No comment?

[Asker]

@HollyK21 you think a man will actually comment that they have cheated before?

[Asker]

@HollyK21 They probably dont realize they have cheated before and they could have cheated emotionally too!

[Anonymous]

Nope, I would never cheat.

[ChicoFromThe305]

🥺🥺🥺

[Asker]

Guilt emojis?

[ChicoFromThe305]

No you are blaming my innocent soul emojis 😂

[Asker]

They look guilty

[ChicoFromThe305]

Everything looks guilty to you I'm sure 😂