You don't find love. Love finds you. Agree or Disagree?

[thegreenyogi]

[Nikki1989]

Yes, the spark, the chemistry, the thrilling sense of meeting “the one”— often feels like fate. It either happens or it doesn't, but what many people don't understand is if you don't put yourself out there, love has no hope of finding you. Sitting on the couch and staring at your phone won't make anything happen.

[DishLady]

Love does find you, however sometimes the timing's off or one/both of you aren't ready for it.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I'm here to add some spice to your love life musings 🌶️. Love can feel like a mystery wrapped in an enigma wearing a bow tie sometimes, right? Many say love finds you when you least expect it, like a sneaky cat with a love potion! 😻

But don’t just sit back and wait for Cupid’s arrow. Be open to opportunities, because sometimes love needs a little push to get moving! Whether love ambushes you or you find it in a crowded room, remember to enjoy the journey 💖!

[HawkPerception]

No, it's both. If you're not actively looking for love and do the same thing every day, not putting yourself in scenarios where you can meet people, you likely won't find love. You have to put in effort to find love and that's just the reality of it. Sitting on your ass waiting for Prince Charming to come ain't gonna happen, especially nowadays in this online world.

[sage2021]

I believe the way the universe works when it comes to love is when you're not looking for it, that's when you meet someone special and fall in love with each other.

Also people used to tell me that you'll never find a guy unless you go out there in the world, because they aren't just going to come knocking on your door.

Now see, I have had guys who have knocked on my door for one reason or another and we did end up in a love relationship. This has happened to me more than once.

Perhaps if you live for as long as I have, you will have more things happen to you. You just haven't lived long enough yet.

[MisterPandemonium]

Hmmm.

I think it might be more complicated than that.

I think you don't find Love unless you look for it.

But if you look for Love, you're not going to find it.

But while you're looking for Love, and not finding it, Love will find you.

Also, looking for sex is not the same thing as looking for Love, so if you're looking for sex, you're probably not going to find Love.

[Zack-Bann]

I don’t think you can trigger love


In a sense love does find you


But not in a fairytale sense where “it’s meant to be”


You still need to put yourself out there and expose yourself to the possibilities


Love doesn’t grow on trees or hide under your bed


It’s the result of loving yourself and loving the world


Basically a manifestation of the situation you create

[loveslongnails]

No, that's semantics. You just asked " Does love live within you?" If you believe that, then you've already got love. It hasn't found you, you haven't found it.

[thegreenyogi]

Lol!! I like to play with words. Don't spoil my fun...

[aaron13547]

Agree the best love just happens without trying. However I think of it more like love is grown, not found.

[nolabels]

IMHO, love happens.

It has a much easier time happening if one is accessible through an adequate amount of social contact.

Not so much if one is sequestered in isolation.

[Spencer10]

You have to find love. Be ready for it. Open for it. Aware when it fits. Love is a contact sport.

[FunkyMonkee]

Maybe, but, love is blind.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/oL3-rvaAOz8

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I agree to disagree & disagree to agree on this one.

[Anonymous]

No that can't be true otherwise all those guys on here who say they can't get a date or can't find a girlfriend or someone for sex would have those things because love would find them.

[Staximus]

Disagree, you're not going to find anything sitting there like a bump on a log

[Ironco]

I don't actively search it out, but it always finds me. But I'm not too naive to admit it sometimes flies right over my head and I miss the opportunity.

[AngryCarl2]

I agree, but you're easier to find if you're out there looking.

[Cidknee]

Yeah, i guess. You can look for it and if it finds you didn't you help?

[Anonymous]

True for men. Not so much for women. Because women choose men. Whereas men are relegated to what is available to them.

[RedInnocent69]

Yeah, to the extent that you can’t be too proactive, you just have to be open to accepting

[Tarifa]

Yes, but you also have to be receptive.

[Miristheiss]

Meaningless platitude.

[Shiprex]

Love finds me. I do not seek or crave it.

[Xawyx-2]

Love most certainly sucks in finding me :/

[Crankor]

You won't find anything if you dont look

[Rosemaiden]

Both are wrong. You create love.

[DrPepper12]

Agreed

[Anonymous]

True

[Stupidmoron]

Agree