I agree and agree people these days are more selfish
You don't have to convince me live exists lol but for those that say it don't, maybe it's because they're going about it the wrong way or looking in the wrong places, trying to find love by dating strangers online just one example
LOL I know that I didn't have to convince you, my big-hearted friend. I just got on a roll in addressing the first question.Now I see what you were driving at with your second question. In answer to it, I'd say that people won't find romantic love/relationship unless they get out there and search. Yeah, there will be dead ends and disappointments along the way. It kind of reminds me of being a researcher or inventor. There are a lot of failed experiments before one finds success. The main thing is to keep trying. In regards to finding a partner, there are definitely better places than others to search. I'm thinking that nightclubs and bars might be some of the worst places to search for serious partners because look at the type of people who frequent them. On-line apparently has low probabilities but isn't a terrible way to seek connections.When I was dating, it was kind of random. It was a matter of meeting someone and asking them out. Actual in person dating was the way to get to know someone and see if there was a connection.Once I was ready to find a life partner rather than a girlfriend, I wound up enrolling in a (pre-internet) dating service. It was like a freaking candy store. Volumes of profiles with photos. Similar to internet sites, I assume. If you liked someone's looks and profile, you had to submit a request to call them to set up a real, in person, date. If they accepted, then the two of you could arrange to meet.
I guess some on-line sites are similar. But I see a problem these days in the fact that people are afraid to actually meet. They want to develop virtual relationships with endless messaging and interviewing before they'll take a chance on actually meeting someone in person. I find that baffling. I think seeing what someone looks and acts like in real life is the only way to see if there is any connection. You can tell by one date. And then you get to know them better on subsequent dates. I think it's a joke for people to think they have fallen in "love" by messaging back and forth and sending pics.
I love when you get on your soap box🤣I actually picture it in my head, lololI do agree. I'm not trying to blame people if they don't find love. I guess I more mean the people that are so quick to have live they delude themselves into believing they're in love with anyone that gives them the slightest attention whether that be in real life or online.. the "he looked at me does that mean he loves me" type, or the "my friends with benefits said he loves me"(meanwhile said friends with benefits sleeping with others as well as well as keeping them as friends with benefits only and that ain't love)
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Hahaha you're welcome😊🤣
"Yeah, It's going down."
Great answer😊 and sounds like your parents have a great marriage.. That's awesome👍👍
Thanks, they really do! I’ve never seen a married couple as openly affectionate as my parents. It’s very comforting to see them as an example for what a truly good marriage should look like!
Oh I'm not hunting lol
Sorry you went through that
That's very true
Sorry to hear that
Sorry you had to read that rather
Oh stop that🤗🤗
Yeah, I don't personally believe in online Dating/relationships.. I need the real deal, not looking distance video chats and sexting... What people consider real relationships these days truly baffles me
And then worse yet I would say, a lot of females have this checkbox list that, even if you fill 99 out of 100 perfectly, because that last one wasn't checked off, they stare at it, and stare and stare, and then the guy is deemed not compatible.... It truly undermines the magic of a relationship spark that a lot say they are supposedly searching for...It's like the novelty of utopia being held as the standard that nobody, including men, could ever live up to... Then they get a cat and it's all over, lol
Agree, but some men do that too, not just women.. people throw that checklist away, and go by your heart and that "click" that happens
Some people definitely do that.. But not all.. I know love exists because I had it... And guess what? My next door neighbor just got married. She's in her 60's.. Didn't believe her, till she showed me the rings and pics.. Not because of her age, but because this guy been coming around the 18 years and when I'd say that was her man she'd deny and insist they "just good friends", and now they married aww.
Oh that's good for her.
I still can't believe it lolol but happy for her, well till she brought up ube crazy (her name for him) 🤦🤣 been years since he stayed here, why she still bring him up🤷 guess it scarred her lolol
ya that's why we need to discourage children watch disney movies tbh. Makes them do stupid things imho and opens them up to unnecessary world of hurt.
I watched Disney movies and so did my girls and we get reality verses fiction
i didn't have a mom, that could've have been part of my issue
What happened to your mom, if I may ask?
lets just say she wasn't interested in the family life or having a son.
Aww sorry to hear that🤗 so you do have a mom, just don't have a relationship with her
well i was born after all lol
Well could of been hatched for all I know🤣🤣🤣
i mean we all technically start as eggs :P
See what I mean LOL
Very rare especially these days
True unfortunatly 😕
You can say that again😔I miss the way things used to be... I don't fit into today's world...
I agree miss brains muffins, i feel the same too, if i can just jump back in time where things used to be real and simple, also where family was everything to a person...
I do agree with that. That doesn't prove live doesn't exist.. Just shows people these days are too selfish and don't get what live is meant to be
But that's the same love I had for my husband.. And still live even though he gone, so it's not about "getting anything" from him🤷
If you say so 👌. By all means believe that
I believe it cuz I lived it, don't believe me🤷 doesn't make it less true🤷
And not believing my statement doesn't make it any less true. It's split
But you're missing the point, you brought up loving "family" your spouse IS your family, or least mine was
I dont have a spouse. There are more important things in life
To me, nothing is more important than family, spouse included
Good for you. To eaches own
I would respectfully disagree, live definitely has its ups and downs, but when people stop expecting it to be all peaches and sunshine fairytale and focus on the more real aspects of love, that person that will love you even when they don't always "like"you when your well being means as much to them as their own, when they'll do anything to put a smile on your face so as not to see you cry.. I know it exists, because that's what I had till life ripped it away from me
" till life ripped it away from me"So that means you no longer love your deceased hubby!.. It was beautiful when you both were together... But now that he is gone.. It's ugly and painful and miserable for you.. Just like I said!.. So don't disagree with me... You are still in LOVE.. When saying LOVE it doesn't means the successful LOVESTORY... Love also means UNREQUITED LOVE - Me and my crush. FORGOTTEN LOVE - TOXIC LOVE - my parents relationship.INSANITY LOVE - @BButterfly had first hand experience of it.. Didn't you girl!.. LOVE Is REALLY UGLY... As long as your partner is with you.. You have SEX that is driven by LUST.. You do things to please your partner to get better sex and affections.. That foreplay for LUST... That's not love!..
You'd be wrong, I'll live him till the day I die, live for someone doesn't die when they do, it don't die till you do
And I love the memories, and the family we created, he may be gone, but in so many ways he's still here
YES.. I Know you will love him till your last breath...And his absence will hurt you.. It's like smashing your hand on cactus spikes over and over again.. It will hurt you.. But you will LOVE him.. That's pain.. TRUE LOVE IS PAIN.. PAIN IS THE REMINDER THAT WHAT YOU HAD WAS REAL... Love is pain.. I don't want to be in pain... or die and leave a girl in pain.. Hence I try to steer clear of love..
🤣🤣🤣 gets drunk on milk and lager= "I love you man"🤣🤣
Honestly mate I'm a guy who love's most people but am too awkward to admit it! Give me Lager and Milk though and all shyness is lost lol
Lolol... I knocked back a few vodka/juice drinks, no milk🤢 lolHopefully it'll help me sleep, been not sleeping good again, but gotta be up super early... Only got 2-3 hours of sleep, and first thing happened when got to work? Some guy fell out, sounds like he was having a stroke, don't need that to be my old ass next
Awww you ok mate (I'm going to ignore you lack of love for milk at this point lol), if you need to chat just send us a personal message mate.
As you should💯
Me? Or you're speaking in general? Lol buzzed blonde here lol
"humans", in general, of which you/me/we are one.
I'm human? Good to know🤣
That's true, and don't help when people confuse lust with love
Yeah that don't sound good
Haven't we all
Glad you found it though🤗🤗
Thank you! I'm very thankful!
As you should be lol
& we'll have no idea
Once you meet your love, your opinion will change.
And take more time really getting to know the person
I think so
Why do you think that?
Been rejected enough over the course of fourteen years to feel like it's a pointless endeavor. If a woman were to express interest, I'd take a chance. But, at least for the first move, I refuse. Everyone is either taken or not interested.
I know this might sound cliche but I'mma say it anyways, you're too young to give up... My neighbor in her 60's just got married last Saturday... Proof love can happen at any age
It does though
👍👍 what I think as well