Do You Believe: "Love Doesn't Exist" or "People Are Looking For Love In All the Wrong Places"? (Page 2)

[JohnE_62]

Love is a highly overrated word. People have to start with liking someone first. But then love comes along and beats the hell out of like and takes over the relationship. Then IT! sets in its poison to make those in that relationship end up hating each other over whatever it gets them to fight about.
Then after those in that relationship break up or drift apart, Love just slips by and looks for another relationship to destroy. Don't trust love, it's a deceiver, a wolf in sheepskin trying to eat the hens.
As far as I'm concerned, LOVE is the Devil.

[Anonymous]

I'm an nihilistic person so i see love differently. Love between two random people can never be actual love or true love bevause it will always be conditional. They love eachother under the condition that they provide something they want. Doesn't mean true love doesn't exist. It does. Its the love you have for your mom, dad, grandparents, siblings, other relatives and pets. That's the truest form of love

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

But that's the same love I had for my husband.. And still live even though he gone, so it's not about "getting anything" from him🤷

[Opinion Owner]

If you say so 👌. By all means believe that

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I believe it cuz I lived it, don't believe me🤷 doesn't make it less true🤷

[Opinion Owner]

And not believing my statement doesn't make it any less true. It's split

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

But you're missing the point, you brought up loving "family" your spouse IS your family, or least mine was

[Opinion Owner]

I dont have a spouse. There are more important things in life

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

To me, nothing is more important than family, spouse included

[Opinion Owner]

Good for you. To eaches own

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

True true

[invalid1]

I believe in wise love.
I think love can exist but with understanding and rationality between the couples.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Agree

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

I believe love exist HOWEVER I also believe not everyone is fated to find a love partner. Some people are destine to not have a love life and thats just life. They have other important things to do in life, they just have to figure out their purpose.

[Nik1hil]

LOVE exists..
But is an UGLY thing and it's full of misery and pain...
What people call love today is just LUST driven with hormones...

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I would respectfully disagree, live definitely has its ups and downs, but when people stop expecting it to be all peaches and sunshine fairytale and focus on the more real aspects of love, that person that will love you even when they don't always "like"you when your well being means as much to them as their own, when they'll do anything to put a smile on your face so as not to see you cry.. I know it exists, because that's what I had till life ripped it away from me

[Nik1hil]

" till life ripped it away from me"

So that means you no longer love your deceased hubby!..
It was beautiful when you both were together...
But now that he is gone.. It's ugly and painful and miserable for you..
Just like I said!..
So don't disagree with me...

You are still in LOVE..
When saying LOVE it doesn't means the successful LOVESTORY...

Love also means
UNREQUITED LOVE - Me and my crush.
FORGOTTEN LOVE -
TOXIC LOVE - my parents relationship.
INSANITY LOVE - @BButterfly had first hand experience of it.. Didn't you girl!..

LOVE Is REALLY UGLY...
As long as your partner is with you.. You have SEX that is driven by LUST..

You do things to please your partner to get better sex and affections.. That foreplay for LUST...
That's not love!..

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

You'd be wrong, I'll live him till the day I die, live for someone doesn't die when they do, it don't die till you do

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

*love

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

And I love the memories, and the family we created, he may be gone, but in so many ways he's still here

[Nik1hil]

YES.. I Know you will love him till your last breath...
And his absence will hurt you..
It's like smashing your hand on cactus spikes over and over again..
It will hurt you.. But you will LOVE him..
That's pain..
TRUE LOVE IS PAIN..
PAIN IS THE REMINDER THAT WHAT YOU HAD WAS REAL...

Love is pain..
I don't want to be in pain... or die and leave a girl in pain..
Hence I try to steer clear of love..

[Celtero]

I struggle to see love as existing. It seems like people always act on sexual attraction first, no matter what. They pick whomever they're most turned on by and try to make it work after the fact. That isn't to say that can't work out... but we should stop pretending there's some deep emotional or personal connection.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I believe people are looking for love in all the wrong places and lowering the standards to get it. That's why on still single I refuse to settle for less than I'm worth.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

As you should💯

[GingerGuy]

Neither. It's hard to find period. For most people. It exists, but whether you'll find it and that person? And in my opinion, doesn't matter where. They could be anywhere.

[AndrewMG]

Love exists, it's usally at a bottom of a lager/milk glass though!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

🤣🤣🤣 gets drunk on milk and lager= "I love you man"🤣🤣

[AndrewMG]

Honestly mate I'm a guy who love's most people but am too awkward to admit it! Give me Lager and Milk though and all shyness is lost lol

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Lolol... I knocked back a few vodka/juice drinks, no milk🤢 lol
Hopefully it'll help me sleep, been not sleeping good again, but gotta be up super early... Only got 2-3 hours of sleep, and first thing happened when got to work? Some guy fell out, sounds like he was having a stroke, don't need that to be my old ass next

[AndrewMG]

Awww you ok mate (I'm going to ignore you lack of love for milk at this point lol), if you need to chat just send us a personal message mate.

[ItsMeElliana]

Love does exist. and if they were meant to be they will come together at the right time and we never know when that could be

[Wester1967]

Erma Franklin - Love is bitter, Love is Hopeless, Love is Blind

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=72DCIpQbjl4

[Wiredone]

Love does exist. If people aren't finding it, they are looking in the wrong place

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

👍👍

[Mark987]

Love does exist. A lot of Women I know complain that they can't find the " right " guy.. They all date douche bags or egotistical men.. It is hard to find the " right" one but sometimes you have to look where you least expect it

[loveslongnails]

I believe love exists, and it's nothing like you think it is.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Me? Or you're speaking in general? Lol buzzed blonde here lol

[loveslongnails]

"humans", in general, of which you/me/we are one.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I'm human? Good to know🤣

[Grond21]

Not only the wrong places, but we don't recognize it when we see it. Love is often not glamorous, it is the quiet sacrifice and support, day and night, that never fades. But instead we get caught up in the shiny appeal of shallow infatuation and miss what's truly important

[noohair]

I believe that social media has ruined dating and courtship.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I agree💯

[alance99]

Love definitly exists but sometimes it takes time to find the right person

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

That's true, and don't help when people confuse lust with love

[TwinkleLily5]

I think T. v love gave us girls the wrong impression lol.

[smokenhotout]

I believe we are attracting the opposite exact opposite of what we want. Because trust me I didn't sign up for once every three months!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Yeah that don't sound good

[Lynx122]

I think neither one is true I think it's just really hard to find.