What’s one mistake you never want to repeat again in a relationship?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Ending up with the wrong person , I thought my wife and I would be together til the end , but after 20 years of marriage she decided to be selfish and ruin our marriage , which was a complete shock to me , which makes it harder for me to trust girls’ these days , I feel social media warped peoples’ minds including my wife’s’ mind as well , because she was always a sweet loving caring partner to me , until she got wrapped up into social media , she completely changed on me big time , to someone I really didn’t know anymore , her selfishness shined big time , which sadly a lot of people are selfish , which is a big turn off to me, I can’t stand selfish people that have no dignity or respect for anyone but themselves , Selfish people are not relationship people whatsoever. They are users , which my ex became a fucking user and a selfish POS person. So I will not get into a relationship with a girl that doesn’t know how to remove selfishness for each other period. I am dating a girl now that is beautiful and younger but she treats me like Gold singer age doesn’t really matter to me , which age never really
Mattered to me as long as she is legal age of consent and has a great personality towards me , the chemistry and connection and attraction is what’s important to me. Plus she is mature for her age and she treats me better than my wife did. So I am just going with the flow
And enjoying it , not thinking negative things whatsoever, she makes me smile and doesn’t hesitate to please me in bed , my kind of girl

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Don't give a girl or woman your heart or time fellas

1) she'll break your heart purposely and proudly

2) she won't care if she takes your time

The modern day woman does not have value in my opinion and feminism is a pathetic ideology.

Noredcarpet · Accepted Answer

Not getting proper help, therapy, starting out sooner in my relationship as it was a waste of time and emotionally very difficult to handle on my, our own. I should have had it as an ultimatium it is that, therapy, or splitting up. I also regret holding back how tough it was on me once it began. I did not say everything as I was afraid my partner would get worse with the jealousy and need for control, his state. I thought he was in a bigger mess than I was in so I withheld. I regret not leaving a past relationship sooner than I did, but at the same time I am not so sure me leaving before would have been the safe thing to do. Looking back there was always something there I could not touch and thought I did not have enough to make it into something, but when the ex, current had in my opinion taken on too much in life they showed signs like irritability and depression that alongside the absurd jealousy caused tensions. I know now it is impossible to have a good communication going if one of you is not doing it right, it takes two. I was always waiting and hoping as the stress would ease up that it would get better. I wait too long, waiting is not the answer, waiting is only making things worse. Too if you have tried or you think you have worked out a solution that will finally get rid of the jealousy and then it returns the very same thing without anything new taking place, that is a sign you have to get help, if something returns.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

I’d be more careful about committing to a person. I would like to know them much much more and test (myself) whether I’d be willing to tolerate the person’s quirks… and understand if they’re willing and able to tolerate mine.

Of course I don’t mean “test” in the sense of any stupid sort of horse-and-pony show. I just mean I want to know if I can rely on the guy and if he feels he can rely on me. I want to see if we can grow together and build trust between each other. If so, then there’s potential. If not… then too bad… move along.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Helping people out with relationship dynamics is totally my jam! One blunder I’d dodge is ignoring those pesky red flags because, trust me, they always wave back. 🏴 I've learned the hard way that it's better to address issues as they pop up rather than letting them snowball. Keeping communication open and honest is the holy grail!

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Amy_Mi · Answer

Loving someone so much that I forget to love myself too.

I’ve learned that overgiving doesn’t prove devotion, it exposes imbalance.

When you pour from an empty cup, love turns into survival, not connection.

Next time, I’ll love with boundaries, not blindness.

Because the right person won’t demand you to shrink, they’ll rise to meet your fullness.

Self respect isn’t selfish.

It’s the filter that keeps love pure.

RxR0954 · Answer

i would say the mistake of letting my jealous side getting the best of me without considering the whole context

Unycorn · Answer

Shout at my partner if he don't want to talk with me. If someone want to go I let him go.

DavyJ · Answer

Putting someone on a pedestal; and eventually realising that they shouldn’t have been up there on a permanent basis.

beenherebefore · Answer

Make assumptions based on my own insecurities.

Unap0logetic_ · Answer

Dating someone who doesn’t like me/I’m not their type.

Anonymous · Answer

Letting him watch internet women next to me. I'm breaking up

Nerdvana · Answer

I have two. Begging her to stay and trying to buy her love.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

Me wanting chocolates every time. 🥹🤣

Anonymous · Answer

Never ever ever cheat or even have tendencies.

mysteriousNicholas · Answer

Never had one 😈👌🏻😇

Cherrylicious · Answer

By never getting into another relationship.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Letting someone use me.

Anonymous · Answer

I never had a relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

Demanding too much and clinging to him

Anonymous · Answer

Suck his dick

Anonymous · Answer

I never want to confuse good sex with love.

Godihateyou · Answer

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