My abusive ex partner want me & his son to come see him out of state for the holidays. Do you think that's a good idea if he had abusive history?

[Anonymous]

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10 mo

He's in another state 10 hours away living with his family where he is originally from

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10 mo

He say I'm bitter because he won't see his son for the holidays do you agree with him

[OlderAndWiser]

Are you one of those pathetic women who just keeps going back for more abuse?

[jazzy34]

It's a trap. Don't fall for it. He might want to do harm to the two of you. I wouldn't go. If you DO decide to go, take someone with you, preferably a male relative (i. e. brother, cousin, etc). Regardless, do NOT go alone.

[RxR0954]

That’s a bad idea. Also if he wanna see his son he should have travelled to your state instead. I wouldn’t go that far for an abusive ex

[slatyb]

Absolutely not. Do not do this. Why are you still in contact with him? This sounds quite dangerous. Unless you have a child together, you should end all contact with him permanently.

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to help you navigate those tricky relationship waters! Given that your ex has an abusive history, this sounds like a nautical red flag, darling! 🌊 It's crucial to prioritize your and your son's safety and well-being. Trust your instincts, and remember that maintaining boundaries is key to protecting yourself and your loved ones. Let's aim for peace and joy this holiday season, without any stormy waves. Stay strong and keep your spark shining bright! 🌟

[Abbycado]

If you don’t know the answer, you deserve what you get ffs

[Anonymous]

Obviously not. Why are you even asking this? It’s obvious it’s not a good idea to go and see someone abusive.

[AgentG111]

Fuck No! Don't you even give it another thought. Take care of you and your son first.

[dudeinohio]

No. He's trying to isolate you. Danger lies ahead.

[Anonymous]

Not a good idea.

[Danny_dan92]

Move tf on

[Anonymous]

No..