What is a "deal-maker" quality in a partner that is so powerful it can overshadow a minor "deal-breaker"?

[HawkPerception]

[Bolt1104]

A deal maker quality to me is something so genuine and powerful in a person that it overshadows the little flaws we all have. For me the biggest deal maker is consistent kindness and loyalty. When someone shows real love, communicates openly, apologizes when they’re wrong, treats you with respect, and makes you feel safe that one quality can outweigh small deal-breakers like quirks, habits, or minor imperfections that we all have we are human no one is perfect but when someone has a good heart, shows effort, and chooses you every single day, that’s the kind of trait that makes everything else feel manageable. A good heart and loyal character can overshadow the small stuff any day!

[RandomGirl42]

Someone who appreciates my cute, adorable and all kinds of wonderful awesomeness and never once mistakes my Goddess like beauty and qualities that only mortals can dream of for vain narcissism.

And has subscribed to RandomIsAwesome. Com

The opinions expressed by Random are not the views of her partner who has been trying to get Random into therapy

[HawkPerception]

You made me check to see if randomisawesome. com is a website 😮‍💨

[RandomGirl42]

A subscriber! I love you! No refunds. 🤣

[HawkPerception]

I know. I lost 30 seconds I'll never get back 😔

[Summeroflove]

Deal maker is someone whose genuinely a virtuous person not necessarily a fake nice person. As well as someone genuinely who likes me.

[SoccerPlayer99]

Self awareness. Because it can lead to fixing the deal-breaker quality.

[DishLady]

I've never heard that term before... I think I work with "vibe" rather a lot. It's either there or not. We have to vibe at different levels and that's it.

[VioletHaze]

It's difficult to explain. Some people just get you, without needing extensive explanation. You don't need to apologize around this person and they don't look at you like a puzzle they have no interest in solving. A shared intuitive language that makes conversation flow like you are two minds connecting, rather than two people taking turns in a conversation.

For these people, I'll overlook a lot of minor deal breakers. I've even been known to overlook red flags.

[HawkPerception]

Wow what the hell? It's almost like you wrote that from my mind just like last question 😧

[VioletHaze]

Then you are probably one of such people.

[HawkPerception]

I was thinking the same, but didn't want to say it 😂

[HawkPerception]

So far though, I'm liking your opinions, even the way you write is resonating with me.

[VioletHaze]

Thanks. I think I read a mytake of yours a few weeks back or less that resonated with me as well.

[HawkPerception]

A lot of my MyTakes are pretty controversial, so it was likely my most recent one 😂

[VioletHaze]

Yes, that was the one. And seeing as you are an intp, of course controversy follows 😂

[MJVillarama]

A deal-maker is something like kindness, loyalty, or shared values. qualities that make you feel safe and happy enough to overlook small annoyances.

[queenofcardio]

His ability to stay calm during a crisis

[RavVid]

Loyalty and genuine niceness.

[exitseven]

If she thinks that i am funny.

[Xawyx-2]

If she's really, really, really hot :P

[ABC1x1x]

I dont even understand the question

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Being a hard worker

[HawkPerception]

So if he doesn't work hard and wants to relax and enjoy life, that's a dealbreaker?

[trumpetplayerforlife]

You can relax at time but im a busy bee

[inhahe]

If she's hot, haha.