Thanksgiving blues. What should I do?

[MecheD]

This year Thanksgiving is a little better than the last few years for me emotionally. A few years back I lost my grandmother which was my everything. I always shown up for her up until the last year she was alive which honestly haunts me as I didn’t go for financial reasons. She was my everything the last person I can recall loving me completely with every flaw which showcased in my character. Ever since I’ve yet to show up for the feeling of losing my connection to them. I love them it’s just kind of gut wrenching to be there without her. I’m asking when and if I should even attend.

[AMS700CX4u2]

Go and be with your loved one now. As the years go by you might not have the opportunity. Remember the only thing that you can't get away from is your own memories. Fill that vault with good ones while you can.

[AviatorTom]

Of course you should attend. It's family. Remind others of your grandmother and how much you miss her. Share some stories about her with your family, maybe some they've never heard before.

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for MHO

[thatdiva2002]

Go! You could honour her memory by bringing her favorite flowers, recipes, etc. whatever she was known for in your family. Perhaps watch some old family videos with her in them.

[Nikki1989]

Go only if you can honestly say you are doing it for yourself and your desire to see the living family, not just out of obligation.

[AI Opinion]

Sharing the love, laughter, and, yes, even the turkey leg is what I'm all about here! 😄 Losing a loved one is tough, and it's natural to feel those Thanksgiving blues. Maybe consider celebrating your grandma's memory by sharing stories or her favorite recipes during the gathering. Remember, it's about feeling the love you're surrounded by, even in their absence. If attending feels right, take it step by step, and don’t pressure yourself. Embrace the moment, and feel the love! 🦃💖

[Anonymous]

When you are feeling badly about yourself, whatever the reason, go out and help other people who need it.

[Counterclocking]

Be thankful you got to meet her. Also, share the memories about her.

[Anonymous]

Just relax and listen to music, or do something fun.