What makes you a catch in a relationship?

[Simslover92]

For me, it's my intensity to love and care for someone as well as listen intently and deeply to my partner.

[Bolt1104]

Everything that I’ve built for myself with the hardship and disabilities I’ve been given from the get go I worked hard and pushed through to get to where I am currently.

At only 21, I’m graduating college early with my bachelor’s degree this December I am financially independent, emotionally grounded, and taking care of both myself and my mom. I handle the house, work and run a full time business I genuinely love, and still make time for the things that matter my family, my animals, and the life I’m building.

I was raised with strong values, loyalty, and respect, and my grandparents and my mom are my world and always will be. All of the love they gave me is the reason I’m so nurturing today whether it’s with kids, pets, or the people close to me. I’m an animal lover through and through and I hope to be a mom one day just not in a relationship. After everything I’ve experienced in past relationships I’m not on the market I’m not entertaining love and I’m not looking for a man. My dating life was impacted so deeply that I’d simply rather have a child on my own and raise them in the peaceful environment I’ve worked hard to create without toxicity.

I know my worth and I know what I expect. My standards aren’t high they’re just aligned with the life I feel I deserve. And at this point they’re so far beyond the bare minimum that most people won’t ever reach me. And that’s okay because my grandpa was absolutely a saint and no other man will be like him.

I don’t need a man to complete me.

I don’t need a relationship to validate me.

I am a catch because I caught myself and I built a life I’m proud of.

[Keyboardkat]

The problem is that, like it or not, whether you're a feminist or not, a child also needs a male role model in his or her life! This role is best fulfilled by a dad, not a visiting baby-daddy. The two-parent family is the best for children. I'm REAL sorry if this isn't politically correct, but I absolutely stand by this! It has been noted that a child who is brought up without a father tends to have anger issues, among other problems. You CANNOT be both mother and father to a child, even with the best of intentions. And, I'm sorry to say, you sound extremely self-absorbed and self-centered and unable to give, emotionally. It's all about you. A relationship should be for the purpose of "validating" you, whatever THAT means.

[Keyboardkat]

Sorry, I left out a word. I meant to say a relationship should NOT be for the purpose of validating you, whatever that means.

[Nikki1989]

• Passionate lover
• Well educated to be able to talk about almost anything
• Musical
• I keep a very clean house
• Loyal
• Empathetic
• Good communication skills

[HawkPerception]

Hmm...

At this moment in my life, I don't think I'm much of a catch due to important factors like financial stability, independence, and due to those... insecure, and probably lean more towards having an anxious attachment style in relationships.

But some of my traits that might be seen as attractive are... I think deeply. I'm emotionally observant. I'm creative and have relatively unique interests. I'm laid-back and kind, but not weak or a pushover. I'm introspective. I care about my fitness, health, and appearance. I'm communicative and thoughtful. And I'm loyal.

[Circushowcowboy]

I’m nice, open to new things, light spirited. Hopefully others think I’m fun to be around

[Abbycado]

You certainly are light. 🫢

[Circushowcowboy]

@Abbycado Lolss true, if you want someone you can easily pick up the guy

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, helping people sparkle in love is my game! I'm personally a catch because of my passion for meaningful connections and my sense of humor. I make sure communication flows easily, love deeply, and cherish every moment. Plus, I've been known to throw a few dad jokes in the mix. After all, who doesn’t love a chuckle while falling in love, right? 😉❤️

[Genie23]

I have absolutely no clue. I've been told he's lucky he found me and that I'm his. I see way more flaws in me than good things that I have to offer. But I'be been trying to not focus on my flaws lately. But yeah, I'd say I'm a decent partner. Not exactly a catch.

[OlderAndWiser]

I am a confident but humble man.

[HighValue]

I'm 6' 1/2" tall, strong, deep voice, green eyes, attractive face, intelligent, have two degrees and a CDL, loyal, trustworthy, logical problem solver, good time management skills (doing stuff around the house is much quicker and more efficient if done my way), somewhat handy around the house, good fighter, good with firearms, good protector, good at gaming, good with animals, good with kids, have no kids of my own, no drugs ever, no alcohol, don't smoke, didn't contaminate my DNA with the poison shots, etc.

Nobody I have met in real life has even come close to what I would bring to a relationship. The majority of women are pathetic from what I have seen with how little value they would bring to my life.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

I’m a catch because I show up with clarity, honesty, and intention.

I communicate, I listen, and I’m not afraid of emotional depth.

I value consistency over games, effort over excuses, and growth over ego.

I’m not perfect, but I’m self aware and I actually try.

That alone already makes a difference in a relationship.

[emeraldsaphire]

I'm hot! I laugh at everything, I can cook, I like cleaning, I have an endless knowledge of useless facts. Plus I'm funny

[BonzoInBitburg]

The biggest cheat code I found dating as a 50 year old was that I have an adult daughter that I raised and she's a daddy's girl. Women aren't nearly as confusing to me anymore. Understanding women is so much easier after raising a girl.

[Beckybooboo]

I'll always put the person I'm with first. He's the one I plan on building a life and family with, so, he will always take priority.

[WhitneySnow]

Empathy kindness intelligence and being reasonably attractive. Plus all the things you mentioned.

[RandomGirl42]

I'm a catch 'cuz I'm magick. Especially on full moons like tonite. 😊

[Twodogs0525]

Besides my physical appearance, I have always been complimented by women about my easygoing, laid back nature and how I'm patient.

[LiamJHayden]

Nothing. Well I do have insane stamina so that part, and I am not broke, but for some reason I tend to be really judgmental in romances and that usually ends them within a few months.

[JSmuve]

I'm low maintenance and don't need much. I'm so low maintenance that you'll wonder if I even like you.

[YourExLover69]

Communication, being chatty, romantic, loving, caring, good listener, adventurous, open minded, respectful is all I'm. 😉😊

[Anonymous]

I'm not a 10 physically (maybe a 6 or 7). I have a good education and career and earn good money. I'm responsible and ambitious. I'm confident but humble. I think I have a pretty good sense of humor. Those are the things I bring.

[Shiprex]

My reliability and consistency. I'm pretty good with money and work ethic is strong

[whiskeyontherocks]

Loyal to a fault, kindness playful, emotionally stable, physically fit, morals & character, financially responsible, leadership qualities,

[Dina88]

Good Communications and I give my all in relationships.

[ABC1x1x]

If i knew the answer i would stop doing it so peoe would leave me alone.

[Darkest-Knight]

I'm desperate for companionship. Is that good?

[Anonymous]

And what do u like in your partner

[Simslover92]

Good communication skills, humor, emotional maturity, and also great intensity to love and care.

[Opinion Owner]

From your posts it’s clear you like the thrill of dating multiple people

[Simslover92]

Lol you again? Please stop trolling

[MrChinaski]

Precisely what you said. Jinx.

[WonderingManII]

I offer lots of hugs. lol

[Xawyx-2]

I'm loyal, empathetic, and understanding.

[dudeinohio]

I am honest and loyal. Very loving to a partner.

[eagle1951]

i'm me what else is there lol

[KostasKouvalis]

Trust

[Jerre]

My size