My friend doesn't like my fiancé but says she's happy for me anyway, does that make sense?

[Anonymous]

[itsannalee]

Does it even matter?
People feeling ain’t your concern.

[Asker]

I suppose not, not everyone I know likes her because they say she comes off as a snob, although I already knew that before we got engaged.

[Plugs]

Snobby in the sense feeling superior to others?

[Asker]

@Plugs Yeah.

[Plugs]

And why does she feel her to be snobby?

[Asker]

@Plugs Probably because she is.

[Plugs]

What does she do or say or how does she act

[Asker]

@Plugs Usually dismissive of people who aren't her family or friends, very sarcastic, and constantly talking about herself.

[Plugs]

Ohh lol

[Asker]

@Plugs I still love her and enjoy hearing her talk about herself

[slatyb]

I think you should ask her what she doesn't like. Maybe she's seeing something you are not.

[Asker]

It's because she sees her as a snobbish.

[slatyb]

Is she? Is she gracious with others, or does she consider herself better than they are? There's a difference between feeling superior, and just not enjoying other's company. If I were you, I would think carefully about whether your friends feelings are justified.

[Asker]

She is, but I already knew that before we got engaged.

[slatyb]

Do you realize that she will drive away everyone else in your life? To me this is a hard no. Ask other people how they feel. I married someone that was almost universally disliked. They were right, and I was so so wrong. It nearly ruined my life.

[Asker]

I still want to be with her more than anything.

[Plugs]

Wow what’s that special about her

[slatyb]

I expect you will come to regret it.

[Anonymous]

Why does she like her? Is it because she’s from another race? Or something?

[Asker]

She finds her snobby.

[Opinion Owner]

Do u want to date her and marry her or just fuck

[Asker]

Marry

[Opinion Owner]

Wow. If u think she’s snobby why do u like her

[Asker]

I've always been drawn to that type, I love the confidence, even if it's overkill.

[Opinion Owner]

Then it’s your problem ig

[Opinion Owner]

How do u both look

[Asker]

I'm short with dark hair, glasses, and freckles. She also has dark hair and is tan.

[Opinion Owner]

How tall are u both

[AI Opinion]

As the relationship guru around here, let me sprinkle some wisdom. 🧙‍♂️✨ It's pretty normal for friends to not always vibe with our partners. Everyone's got their own tastes and quirks, so it's kind of like preferring pineapple on pizza or not (controversial, I know!). What’s important is that she’s supportive of your happiness. That's true friendship. 😊 She may be seeing some red flags or maybe it’s just personal taste. Keep the communication open with both your fiancé and friend to maintain balance! Keep the love alive! ❤️