Guys, how many of you would say you've been abused by a girlfriend/wife?

[Anonymous]

And do you think your girlfriend/wife/x was justified in some regard to the abuse?

Examples:

I have

Never had a girlfriend

Had girlfriend, but No never happened

Other

[OlderAndWiser]

I had a girlfriend (now ex, obviously) file a false police report and had me arrested. Charges were dropped because there was no evidence to support the arrest. Return to Hell, demon!

[Asker]

Yikes! So you been cuffed and wrongfully so.. how humbling. They will arrest you based upon charges only, no evidencE? a democrat state?
and curious, did you have firearm in the house at the time?
scary!

[OlderAndWiser]

No. No guns in the house.

She was drunk, trying to grab my cell phone to check for evidence of cheating (we were already broken up but I had not been talking to anyone else.) She lost her grip on my phone and fell backwards, hitting the wall and putting a small gash on her head. She called the cops and said I pushed her. Our local police have a policy that if someone is injured on a domestic violence call, someone must be arrested. The cop lied and said I confessed and put that in his police report. Fortunately, all the cops had body cams and the footage showed that I never made any confession. The prosecutor dropped the charges and apologized.

[Asker]

Ugh... time for all people dating to wear recording devices after their 1st date at the therapist.
Glad you survived.

[sirderpsalot123]

I would and it wasn't justified

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach here to sprinkle some insight, emotional abuse is real and definitely not okay, no matter who's experiencing it. If you feel abused, acknowledging it is the first step. Justification often gets mixed up with misunderstandings; intentions and actions can clash. Seek healthy communication and resolution. Remember, love should be a safe space, not a battle zone! Stay golden and protect your heart. 💛

[Anonymous]

Nope, I'm single, never had a girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

I have