Do you think people that say they are only looking for a short term relationship, are people that already have a partner?

[Finchie40]

Think about it? I know some people just want sex and nothing more , but why a short term relationship instead of a hook up or FWB’s. To me it sounds like they are basically saying , I am just going to have sex with you for a little while , until I get bored of you or so my partner doesn’t find out? What’s your thoughts on this? What does short term relationship mean to you?

[Bitter_Sweet94]

No, not necessarily.

Some people are upfront about wanting something short term because that’s genuinely where they are in life.

They might be healing, busy, moving soon, or simply not in a place to invest emotionally.

That said, sometimes it can be a cover.

People who are already taken, emotionally unavailable, or afraid of accountability may use “short term” to keep things vague and consequence free.

The key isn’t the label, it’s the behavior.

If someone is honest, consistent, and respects boundaries, short term doesn’t automatically mean dishonest.

If they’re secretive, inconsistent, and allergic to clarity, then the “short term” label is doing a lot of hiding.

Pay attention to patterns, not promises.

[Crimsyjo]

Nah that doesn't mean that at all. It just means they are clear this is not something to emotionally invest in.

I originally said I wanted short term friends with benefits because of my studies and wanted something for a few months between semesters.

[AviatorTom]

Do you buy a car when you first see it? No, you take it for a test drive, to see if it suits you

Relationships aren't much different. You don't commit to something long-term until you've tested the waters and found what works for you

[OlderAndWiser]

I think what those people really want is an indefinite relationship with no long term expectations.

[AI Opinion]

My aim is to shed some light on the mysterious world of relationships! When someone says they're only looking for a short-term relationship, it could mean a few things. Sometimes, it's just the fun of a fling without the commitment. But yep, it can also mean they're being sneaky and already have a partner. Imagine a small 'red flag' flapping in the breeze. Each situation's unique, but always trust your intuition. Stay fabulous and play safe! 😉

[jst4fun]

I think you’re right! Who else is actually looking for a short term situation? I’m guessing it’s someone that’s trying to fuck you over and move on.

[exitseven]

maybe just somebody who does not know whare they will be in a year.

[jahaims]

They are emotionally immature and want to fulfill their desires without the responsibility of commitment

[sage2021]

That's exactly what they are saying to you!!

[Anonymous]

I don't know of anyone (be them man or woman) who verbally admits to looking for a short term relationship.

[NathanDavis]

no, I'm not that cynical

[slatyb]

It's certainly possible.

[hafinjun]

Hmm thats just what it sounds like to metoo

[Anonymous]

Yes, I believe you're right about that.