Have you ever been involed in an extra-marital affair?

[robocop666]

I spoke to 3 people here who were tell your stories how many? were you caught? well your alive so probably no.

[Anonymous]

I am Asian woman and met a white guy from online and he is married he's calling me bestie everyday. he said his wife doesn't even have sex with him anymore and he's lonely. He said he is still married to her but they sleeping in separate bedrooms. He always talk to me and I fell inlove. I was 28 when he first met me and he's 65 y. o at the time. He has 2 sons and his youngest is same age as me. I grew up without father so I was seeking for father figure. He said he will marry me once his wife died. I told him dont kill her because thats how I felt about him he said he won't do that. Throughout our friendship he never even complimented me like Im pretty/kind but easy for him to say someone is hotter than me but will say he has feelings for me. I was confused. I ghosted him for 1 day and 15 hours when he said my friend was hotter than me. And I think he finally got it and texted me "are you mad?" he messaged me and said "have a nice life bye" I messaged him after that but I think he blocked me because he hasn't read my messages but after a week he changed secuity number on signal app. I don't know what does that mean. But now I finally realize I dont wanna get involved again with married men. They are just headaches and Im just hurting myself when Im single and can find someone better. I just pray her wife live longer than him and divorce him and someone Asian would break his heart lol.

[robocop666]

well he is difficult but I am sure they are not all like that

[Opinion Owner]

I dont understand him at all he said he loves me always calls me but he never even said anything nice to me he just said I have sexy body thats it. He is retired now and I don't know if he can still find an Asian woman his age but he seemed like he doesn't even want to divorce her when he's unhappy. Not sure if he scared of money splitting in half when he just recently retired from his job on November 29 so maybe he's scared of his wife getting all his money at his age he might harder to find a woman too.

[robocop666]

take serious precautions. if your caught your dead.

[Opinion Owner]

Are you saying he will kill me?

[robocop666]

no his wife will

[Opinion Owner]

I will never do it again. They are headaches. I want to be with someone loyal and someone who will never cheat. Felt bad for his wife. Plus he's not that hot lol

[robocop666]

no cheaters can be fine talk to people more experienced. However if your caught you may die and this is not a joke.

[Chrytina84]

Kinda but It was to help my friend expose her cheating ex it was online.

[exitseven]

No, i would, never do that. i did date a woman who was divorced and her ex husband came by. I think he saw my car in the driveway. He started banging on the door and this woman said we should just be quiet and he will think nobody was home and he would leave. It took a few minutes but he finally left.

[robocop666]

well if they are divorced then she is fair game. why was he complaining?

[exitseven]

Beats me.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Anonymous]

I had an affair and it ended my marriage. I will never do that again, I was stupid.

[User71947]

Same

[Opinion Owner]

I didn’t even really like the woman I was cheating with, it was just about sex

[robocop666]

was your wife not satisfying you or were you just curious?

[AI Opinion]

My aim on Girls Ask Guys is all about sharing insights and experiences around relationships! Involvement in an extra-marital affair isn't part of my storybook, but it's a juicy plot twist for many. 😏 People often dive into these affairs looking for something missing, creating a rollercoaster of emotions and secret texting marathons. Just remember, the thrill of the chase often leads to heartaches and mixed-up plans. Keep it real, and watch for any red flags waving frantically in the background! 📸💕

[ShellyB]

No but a little kind of? OK when I was in college, for a while I was always broke and pretty much mooched off anybody who would let me. Like if I saw guys w pizza I would smile and ask them if it was good and they would always give me pizza stuff like that.

Anyway there was a bar and I was there w a friend once, and a guy started buying me stuff. I hung out with him and he would touch my shoulder and we’d smile and laugh, and, that was it, I went home before he did, and it turned into a thing, where we did that a lot. And being honest I was doing it because it meant I got a free meal. We never actually talked about dating but there was some flirting and he would make some mild sexual innuendo and he did touch me a lot but in pretty harmless ways (the most was hand on small of back). Also I should mention he was prob 50 or older. Anyway I had looked for his wedding ring and I had hinted around asking if he was married and he didn’t directly answer but seemed to indicate he was not, but one day he was wearing a wedding ring and I asked him about it and, yes he was married and he acted a little weird like I was busting him even though we didn’t exactly do anything wrong? And then I imagined if his wife saw us acting that way and, I avoided that bar for the next year, I have never seen him again. So does that count, I do not know but it is the closest I have been to it!

[Finchie40]

Plenty of times with cheating wives and girlfriends" that told me they were single

[robocop666]

the other guy here who I talked to was caught 3 times. he played dumb when he got a phonecall.

[Finchie40]

I only got caught once , but the guy did nothing when he confronted me , I told him the truth that I didn’t know she was married

[robocop666]

I had a seriously hot woman try it with me once. I turned her down/ messed up. I followed her on instagram and she was freshly married. She still remembers my face to this day and she recognised me pretty fast. interesting since this was 10 years ago. goes to show how much she liked me. she lived in a mansion with horses.

[robocop666]

what percentage of them lie and say they are single and what percentage tell the truth. That they want an affair and are unhappy?

[Finchie40]

90 percent of them lie ,

[robocop666]

and the woman who tried it with me was unaware I knew her instagram ha ha ha. maybe I should have just said "How is your new family I see your married now"

[Phoenix98]

I personally have not but a friend of mine has.. a few times.

[robocop666]

if caught they will die. this is not a joke.

[Phoenix98]

he was caught at least once.

[robocop666]

is he dead? most people just yell confronting a cheater but some engage in scary actions.

[Phoenix98]

No he isn't.

[Fireguy17]

Sort of, they were in the process of getting a divorce, and actually did get divorced.

Legally they were still married at the time, but had long moved on.

I even loaned one some money to finish paying for it, and she paid me back.

[Jltakk]

Maybe it's because I've never had the luxury of being in a relationship, but I will never understand people cheating. It frustrates me to no end.

[robocop666]

people murder people over this

[Anonymous]

Was babysitting for a couple when I was 16, I ended up having affairs with both the husband and the wife.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Wtf why

[Opinion Owner]

@Shrimpenjoyer because I had a crush on the wife and the husband was a creep.

[blackeagle007]

But you had the affair with the creep husband?

[Opinion Owner]

@blackeagle007 i didn't have much of a choice. He was a quick finisher and was easy pleased often with blowjobs and he liked to herk himself off. They gave me a car to use which was great.

[Anonymous]

I have indeed. I have slept with quite a few married women.

[robocop666]

ok make sure you dont die. This is not a joke.

[Opinion Owner]

Well I'm glad I didn't die and I never really ever considered the possibility of it while I was in the middle of doing it. I don't do it anymore.

[robocop666]

safer that way. People do crazy things when they find out their partner is having an affair.

[Opinion Owner]

They definitely do, and I never really considered it before this.

[robocop666]

I have seen news articles from animal lovers and men who the family claimed never even had a parking ticket and scary scary things happened. There is a guy here who worked as a bouncer and he saw men catching their wives cheating. its scary.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, angry men are dangerous people. I don't ever want to make anybody angry to the point where they want to hurt me. This is why I don't mess around with married women anymore.

[ABC1x1x]

I was. I was caught right away because I am a bad liar. She had no ability to complain amd didn't really care. She pretended too at first. My mistress left me after I got my wife pregnant for the 3rd time.

[Twodogs0525]

No, it's never even crossed my mind. Having one woman is enough!

[dougeats]

I was single she was married to a female so yea I guess

[Tovarich39]

Hey, since I am new I am not allowed to answer your question about sharing that I am gay since it's sexuality related, but message me if you have questions and I will share

[airaM2000]

I was when I was 16 she was 26 she wasn't married but was in engage.

[NathanDavis]

nope.. that's not my kind of thing

[AviatorTom]

Nope

[DonaldDarko]

No, I wouldn't have anything to do with that.

[FunkyMonkee]

No, only one at a time.

[Anonymous]

Nope, never have, never would.

[robocop666]

why is your name anonymous for a comment like that?

[Opinion Owner]

Because someone is stalking me.

[robocop666]

sorry to hear that

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

Yes but it's not something I'm proud off

[jazzy34]

No I haven’t.

[queenofcardio]

No never