Do you believe people change or once they cheat, they will always cheat?

[incubuskatz]

Never settle for a guy who makes you an option and follows too many girls! He made a choice with his actions, heart and stuck in his lustful ways lest he desires everything and will sleep with anything he doesn’t have self control so he won’t make good husband material he is looking for the next big hit, thrill to excite him and turn him on. If he really loved you he wouldn’t be spinning the block searching for pleasures when I can’t full-fill them he already left in his heart a year ago believing anyone’s lie about me, he built a roster lies to you. The reality I must accept and acknowledge he doesn’t love me and I wasted 7 years thinking that If someone spending money on me means something when it Does NOT what means more is character, integrity, morals discipline and self control a man that is easy and stuck in his lustful ways and can say yes to fucking any beautiful woman out there is not husband material save yourself the hurt and go on with your life.

[Finchie40]

I believe people change , and some people don’t , it mainly comes down to your own decisions and choices in life. Cheating is a selfish act and behavior all together , someone that cheats only truly thinks and cares about themselves and what they feel is best for themselves. So getting into a relationship with someone is always a 50/50 chance on whether it will last or not , I was married to my ex for 20 years thinking her and I would be together forever , but her selfishness took the better of her and she ruined our marriage by being a selfish , The thing is everyone has selfishness inside themselves, if you can’t remove selfishness for your partner , don’t expect them to remove it for you. Your ex was a selfish person for cheating on you period , instead of fixing what was missing from the relationship with you , he decided to get it elsewhere. After I been cheated on a few times from girls’ I gave my heart to , my trust for girls’ went out the window , until I realized not every girl is that way unfortunately I just ended up with the wrong ones. So if you plan on dating again, try to find yourself a guy that isn’t selfish , a guy that wears your shoes the same or equivalent to wearing yours and you should experience a much better relationship with someone

[coachTanthony]

It's not once they cheat they always cheat they just chose wrong and now decided to be a coward and cheat instead of owning up to it and just breaking it off. If anything it shows they don't have good character and should avoid at all costs.

[FreyaRed]

Depends on situation why the person cheated but generally I tend to think cheater always cheat. Cheater try always to move the red line beyond acceptable limits and they displace responsibility. They go to another relationship and then do it again, again and again until their magic disappears and lot of them remain alone

[Little_Bumblebee]

I wouldn't be able to trust a cheater.

But I also think its like tattoos. If you get one, you either get just the one, or you cannot stop getting tattoos.

[Twalli]

I don't believe that people who cheated will always do so. In order to cheat, you have to justify it. You had to decide that what you did was all-right, or worth it. It's easier to cheat again after the first time. You already found a way to justify stepping-out. It doesn't mean that you will, just that it's easier for you.

[JesseP1nk]

I think its a bad idea to take advice from someone who is not happily in relationship. Like honestly, you wanna take advice from someone who messed up their relationship? Or got hurt? What kind of outcome you expect from your own relationship if you listen to their advice? Sure, its a free country you can take their advice but if you follow the same path then you will end up in the same location.

[Nikki1989]

Whether a person changes depends entirely on why they cheated and how they handled the aftermath. However, it seems like most cheaters will cheat again at some point.

[live2dance25]

Some learn from their mistakes but statistically speaking, cheaters are more likely to continue cheating in their next relationships.

[nolabels]

Not being one who cheats, I can't comprehend the mindset of those who would.

I have no idea.

[Unycorn]

Who once broke the rule can do it again for any or no reason

[MisterPandemonium]

I think people who aren't cheaters don't cheat at all, ever.

If people are the cheating type, sooner or later they're going to cheat.

[DryGermanGuy]

For most cheaters this is an ingrained or even successful lifestyle, so no.

[Fireguy17]

I don't know.
They never got a second chance with me.
One and done.

[Redbeardviking]

Change is possible but sadly ego and embarrasment rarely allow the time neededd for it to happen.

[LiamJHayden]

Some change, but I won't take the chance that she is one of the less than 10%

[dudeinohio]

I think cheaters will always cheat. It's how their brain is wired.

[foxsquirrell]

I think if they cheat it shows that they are capable of betraying you.

[Anonymous]

Some of them change, but many of them stay the same.

[Anonymous]

I cheated on my wife, I sincerely regret it. It’s been 10 years and I haven’t cheated on my current spouse

[razor97]

Both are valid and one's moral compass can't change easily

[razor97]

Why?

[Chrytina84]

Yeah they learn to hide it better.

[msc545]

Cheaters always cheat.

[jahaims]

Some people can learn from mistakes most don't

[In_Trance]

People cheat when they're given reason to cheat

[MasterKS]

cheat keeps cheating.

[Bklynbadboy12]

That's so not true