Would you get into a relationship with a bartender?

[Finchie40]

If you said No, what would be your reason not to?

[RandomGirl42]

Oh, sure, ask the little lush THAT question. Lol. And yes, absolutely. Since I'll prolly be there most of the time anyway! 🤣 (Ok, really, I am joking here. Mostly 😳)

And if I cared about someone I wouldn't care what their profession was unless it was like an assassin or something.

[exitseven]

as long as he didint take his work home with him it would be ok.

[RandomGirl42]

@exitseven 🤣🤣🤣

[Hagar88]

I worked in bars/clubs/pubs restaurants. I would never get into anything serious with a waitress, batista, barmaid etc or a nurse for that matter (different matter). What i saw was that none of them are ever loyal. Especially if they are married yet still having to wait tables or tend bar, means they resent their husband for not making enough money.

[NathanDavis]

I would not say No or Yes, based on this one factor alone

I would need to know a whole lot more than just that, now if you want me to decided based on THIS LITTLE information

then, I need to ask... is the bartender a redhead?

if yes, then yes I would... if not, then I probably would not

[Crimsyjo]

I guess so but i know what your getting at. That they are around many many people and temptations. So I don't want to say no. But there is going to be reservations. But if I'm with someone I'm sure it's because something about them makes me feel trust enough.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I'm all about love and connection, regardless of someone's profession. Being a bartender can mean they're social, great listeners, and fantastic mixers – add some love cocktails there! If someone says no, it might be due to late working hours or jealousy over their partner chatting with customers. But hey, relationships are about trust and understanding! 💕 If the chemistry is right and you feel those butterflies, go for it! 🍹❤️

[Screenwriter]

I worked at a restarant that had a bar and the barteneder was always drinking during work hours. My guess is a lot of bartenders are also alcoholics. Would be my only reason to not date a bartender: that fear. Plus bartenders work late night hours. I'm no nite owl.

[exitseven]

I did once. She was the opposite of all the other girls I ever dated. She never went to college and her whole life revolved around drinking and partying. It was a lot of fun at first but it was apparent that she was an alcoholic and was bipolar or something. Every few weeks she would be very abusive to me.

[sage2021]

Personally I wouldn't because I know that a lot of women flirt with the bartender and chances are that they might end up dating.

[Finchie40]

I don't hold that against her considering that's how she makes her money , all that matters is she is coming to me

[queenofcardio]

No. Opposite schedules. We'd rarely see other. I'm a morning person, I work early in the day.. I usually go to bed early.

[beenherebefore]

Probably not. I already work crazy random hours. Being in a relationship with someone who works night shifts would be very challenging.

[uzumymw]

I wouldn't, but only because of their schedule. It would be incompatible with mine

[snermcger]

I bartended for a while. I was pretty angry at that time in my life. The job only exacerbated the anger. Dealing with drunks and dirtbags everyday.
I wouldn't have wanted to date me at that point.

[a_gallant_one]

Yes, but not a serious one. Most of them have had too many sexual partners before, and are more likely to cheat than girls who do some other jobs.

[slatyb]

Sure, why not. There's a really hot one at a club I visit, but I think she's dating the owner.

[genericname85]

in my 20s i would have. now, i won't, cause if you're my age and still a bartender, i think your career choices aren't all that good.

[Anonymous]

If she is hot, yes I would, and I did see a really hot bartender a few weeks ago.

I've seen her before, since the last year, but I'm just too shy to tell her.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Sure. It's quite the profitable legal position.

[In_Trance]

No
We would have opposite schedules and never see each other

[robocop666]

I will get into a relationship with any woman with boobs and butt.

[AgentG111]

I have, it was a bit crazy.

[dragoblack]

Yeah. It's just a night shift job.

[beefcakebradybatson]

If she's got big boobs, why not?

[blackeagle007]

Likely not.