Men why do you think you shouldn't contribute anything to your marriage?

[Anonymous]

You dont cook but you can learn, you dont clean but you could help, you barley help raise your kids because its the wife job, you work to come home and sit on your ass and watch TV.

[exitseven]

I do not believe that. Marriage is a partnership. Each partner plays a part.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Staximus]

Don't blame all men for your bad choice in men

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I'm all about breaking those old stereotypes and fostering love and equality! ❤️ A marriage thrives on teamwork, so it's not just about who does what but how you support each other. Sharing responsibilities, from cooking to parenting, strengthens the bond and respect. It's all about balance, love, and communication, not sitting like a couch potato. 😉 Let's make your marriage rock, one chore at a time!

[ohsheeT]

This is a very sad question. Just because it's so true

And here is the sad part of it you meet someone and you pick her up and you take her places you have fun together you both fall deeper in love you get married and have kids. And yes life become more of a challenge , but you're up for it because of all the beautiful things happening and for some reason , one day , everything kind of stops. from the people I know in one way or another it happens bam it stops everything becomes a f****** nightmare chore is what?\nThey project. ... is everything starts going down hideal from there even their kids are treated in a way that they do not become the best that they can become because they watch it and listen and learn from their parents' actions
And that's the sad part about your question , because it's true

But what's even more sad is that that's the hard way the easy way is to stay engaged

To keep teaching your children to be the best
To come home and cook dinner for your family. Your wife give her a break
The Bigg.\nER break would be putting yourself in her shoes. Each and every day and understand what she has to go through putting yourself in your kid's shoes and what they have to go through and make it easy for them

Because\nWhen you do this, everything else around, you becomes easier. And if you teach this to her and to your kids , then everybody is engaged everybody's working together , it takes a few minutes of each and every day to be happy

But for some reason everybody becomes miserable and life drags on\n And it takes so much out of you and everybody else when it doesn't need to go that way, but somebody needs to lead somebody needs to do the right thing and quit being so angry at whoever, for whatever. It's a choice. It is a sad choice

But good question, because when people when men, when women answer this question, they can either be positive about it or negative about it, but whatever it is that they are going to say, it's because of how they feel, and that's the life that they're living in, and that really sucks, so I hope that this is a wake up call. What life can be instead of what you are making it in the negative sense

Can\nI see. How dare you raise your kids like that or become lazy and not help? It's your house too. It's your life too. It's your partner , it's your kids , wake the f*** up

[Finchie40]

I do and did all those things plus a lot more , and I still got treated like shit , so she is now my ex and now I met a girl that doesn’t want me doing all those things? How does that make sense? Lol

[Imjustagirl1520]

You obviously chose the wrong woman.

[abutaher]

I'm not married yet, but I see in our families; men are helping their women's everyday. Sometimes they even cook.

My elder sister is pregnant. Her husband do not let her band as it might not be good for her. He even do most of the home chors. My mom/uncles always told me to help with home chores even if a little.

I'm born and raised in a very conservative, old school family. Yet we are very careful about this things. And I don't think, a guy will avoid it if he/she loves their partner.

[Nikki1989]

Many men are not marriage-worthy people who can barely look after themselves, let alone anyone else.

It is also common for most men to shift the blame or change the topic when questioned. You will see a man prove my point on this post if it hasn't happened already.

[zagor]

Kind of stereotyping there.

I have a F relative with 2 kids who basically does all the cooking, cleaning and childcare, but she doesn't work outside the home. Her hub drives 2 hours to work, works 9 hours, then drives home. He also works on the yard when home. So he should do more?

[Likes2drive]

When I was married, I was working long hours and was still helping with cleaning and she only worked part time but she would cook but now I do it all since I’m by myself and my house is always nice and neat and that’s while I still have a full-time job with long hours so not all men are like that, there’s definitely a lot of lazy women out there

[Anonymous]

Same reason women Don contribute anything, to find your answers one need only look in the mirror at your own gender.

I have seen more women who are stay at home moms and wives do literally nothing once the kids are at school or daycare, and then bitch because their husband doesn't do all of the chores..

Don't be a hypocrite.

[uzumymw]

Wish I could teach those guys how to act. I do a lot in the household when I live with someone, always have

[Drumlin2001]

Lol. You have really bad taste in men. Would you swap roles? You go work work all hours to pay for everything whilst hubby stayed home to raise kids and keep the home?

[Imjustagirl1520]

its not the 1950s anymore

[Twalli]

My mom made more than my dad, so he took care of most of the housework. If the man is the only one working, he is the sole breadwinner, and the wife's job is to do all the housework.

[RavVid]

You haven't mentioned mowing lawns, other yard work, home maint etc etc etc.

[qwerty2469]

I don't think a single man thinks that. From my 44 years on this earth, in every marriage I've ever seen, the men contribute the majority to the relationship

[Anonymous]

That's fucked up. I know how to cook and swap recipes with Danielle and i did my best to help support her and her kids and i try keeping my place clean as best as I can

[Opinion Owner]

Listen when you love your partner you try to help them out as best you can you be there for them as a loving partner. If they need a hand cooking or cleaning to taking the kids somewhere you pitch in and do it and not be a lazy slob to your partner. You support her and live her and HELP HER OUT when she needs it

[Opinion Owner]

That's what loving partners do they HELP EACH OTHER and SUPPORT EACH OTHER

[InknKink]

Pick a better man.

[Mike_Hum]

Sorry you picked a loser man.