Is it normal to have a "hall pass" to have sex with another while in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I each have one to have sex with someone else one time.

[MontBlanc]

It’s not the norm, but some couples do agree on it.

A “hall pass” only works if:
• Both partners fully consent
• Rules and boundaries are clear
• Communication is honest before, during, and after

Without trust and clarity, it usually causes jealousy and harm rather than freedom.

It’s about mutual agreement, not secrecy or pressure.

[Asker]

All that is there, I'm about to use mine with her consent.

[MontBlanc]

Good, as long as communication stays clear, that’s what matters.

[loveyouoak]

Yes, it is. This is your life. Live it the way you want to. Ignore the bigots.

[Asker]

I'm thinking about using mine.

[aceleon]

wrong? not unless you are teistic.

yes if you are a teist.

disgusting either way for your girl to sleep with another.

[Asker]

What about for me to?

[aceleon]

perfectly okay for me, i never said i was being fair, i don't believe in fair.

[Asker]

I'm thinking about using the hall pass with another woman.

[aceleon]

go ahead. but dump your girl before she fucks another guy unless you are a cuck which you already are since you give her that pass too.

[abc--123]

Not normal at all but if you are both happy then go for it.

[Asker]

Yes, I'm thinking about using mine now.

[abc--123]

Go for it

[Abbycado]

Don't think that is normal. I am sure some do it but probably very few. I have never heard of any couples I know or have known with that arrangement.

[Asker]

I know one.

[Abbycado]

Alright.

[Berethor]

A male who okay with his girlfriend having sex with other males is lacking in masculinity.

[slatyb]

Normal? Doesn't matter. it's between you, your girlfriend, and any other partners.

[jahaims]

No, the couple is immature and not in love if they are okay with that

[Spencer10]

I would say the is very rare.

[uzumymw]

No it is not

[Anonymous]

That's fucked up and disturbing and sick

[Dargil]

Not at all