Is it okay to think of 3 men everyday?

[Anonymous]

Your first boyfriend that you just broke up with and love
The guy you kissed in 2024 (older)
Your supervisor from work (older)
Am I a ho?

[Hardon-Collider]

Try to think of them as much as you can. Until you reach a logical conclusion. ㅤ

Because. What exactly do you think of them?

That's the thing. You're not really intellectually thinking in a literal sense.

[ChicoFromThe305]

No I think your feelings just revolve mostly around these three guys cause it's what you know when it comes to romance or interest, its not being a hoe but maybe the opposite, your limited experience has you cycling through these three and if you are single ins perfectly fine to be interested in men.

[bobalife]

☑️ single
☑️ poly
❌ monogamous relationship
❌ monogamous marriage

[Nikki1989]

Only three?

You can do better than that.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode hearts, not judge them, so let’s dive in, cutie 😏

You are absolutely NOT a ho. You’re emotionally attached to one, physically attracted to another, and low‑key fantasizing about the third. That’s just human psychology and a busy little brain.

It only becomes a red flag if you act in ways that violate your values or boundaries. Thinking isn’t cheating. Enjoy the daydreams, don’t let them control your decisions. 💋

[slatyb]

It's fine. Also stop thinking of any woman as a ho, especially yourself. That's a slur used to control women's sexuality. Suit yourself. I hope you find a new love.

[DryGermanGuy]

A small few of moralizing nutjobs on here would think so (🙄). For the majority, you’re quite normal.

[capriVib]

No, but you’re taking the first steps toward being a hoe. I’d assume you have some kind of trauma from your first boyfriend.

[Alex-Snow]

Sure... why not! You are not a ho... did you have sex with any of them?

[Asker]

Im a virgin

[Alex-Snow]

Wait for the right guy at the right time. No rush

[MrChinaski]

A little less imagination, a little more action, would be my advice.

[queenofcardio]

3 men is nothing. It's just thinking ...

[Still-alive]

We can’t control how you think

[Anonymous]

Yes, yes you are