Been married for 20 years and I never really trusted my wife. She gets emotional attachments to other men every season. I can someone help?

[Bernard123]

[lightbulb27]

humm...

either you have trust issues or more likely,

she is not giving you trust because she's so emotionally all over the place.

the solution be her not engaging with other guys, which proably pushes the emotional bomb deeper. so question is, why she does what she does. that is a therapist/exploration into her heart and mind. she's not fulfilled or it just is.

I am sorry to hear that, it be unnerving and create lack of trust at home... stress. that results in physical issues and illness long term. Peace is what you need. so how can you find peace? the answer be determining... waht is the truth?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Dude, why the fuck would you marry a woman you never trusted? You made your own bed, either sleep in it or gtfo

[Nikki1989]

You sound very insecure. That is enough for any woman to want to talk to others.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to pull back the curtain on relationships and call out the red flags with love and honesty.

Twenty years of not really trusting her is huge. Seasonal emotional attachments to other men is emotional cheating, not “just being friendly.” That’s a pattern, not an accident.

You either need serious couples therapy with brutally honest boundaries, or you accept that this is who she is and decide if you can live with it. If she minimizes, blames you, or keeps doing it, that’s not love, that’s chronic disrespect. You’re allowed to want loyalty, not a rotating cast of side crushes.

[MrChinaski]

It would not worry me.

[NatalieReynolds]

Divorce her. NOW.

[Anonymous]

Get rid of her