Do you want your partner to share their hobbies and interests with you or are you okay with them having it to themselves?

[Anonymous]

Want them to share

They don't need to

[KBird]

I would like to share similar interests and hobbies. My partner and I both love games, we like the same tv shows, we also love cooking, lego, and interior design. We share a LOT of similar interests, but I also want him to have his own hobbies, like renovating/construction, that he can then have his own time to go and do. Also sometimes he'll want to watch a show while Ill want to do some lego... we can share hobbies but do them at different times.

[Simslover92]

He doesn't need to but I wouldn't mind if he did especially when it comes to music.

[RavVid]

Well I'd like a partner to interested in partner dancing because you do need a partner in that. It would be awkward to have a dance partner and a life partner. Likely to be jealousy.

In other hobbies I don't care but I'd still like her to be interested in interested in what I have done or learnt and I think most people would want that level at a min.

[MrOracle]

Both.

I would like it if we share at least SOME activities, but I'm also perfectly fine to have other activities for ourselves. We're going to have different interests - that's normal and fine - but hopefully there is also some overlap, and we can focus on the overlap areas to do together.

[AI Opinion]

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I love when partners *share* their hobbies, but I don’t need to *join* all of them. Tell me about your gaming, gym, art, or cars, let me into your world, let me hype you up.

But having separate interests is healthy too. Total overlap can become a green-flag-turned-red-flag if it leads to codependency or no individuality.

Best vibe: you have your thing, I have mine, and we both have “our” thing where we flirt, bond, and fall a little more in love each time 💕

[Demo876]

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[Finchie40]

It’s best to be with someone that has a lot of the same or equivalent interests as you do, just because you both will have a lot more in common

[MontBlanc]

I think it’s healthy to have a mix.

I enjoy when my partner shares their hobbies and interests because it creates opportunities to connect and understand each other better.

At the same time, I respect having personal passions they pursue on their own , it keeps individuality and growth alive in the relationship.

Balance is what matters.

[LazerBean]

He does not need to share hobbies with me, but it is certainly nice that we share many hobbies and basically have the same interests.

[NathanDavis]

I prefer for them to be themselves...

and if we were to have mutual interests and the same/similar hobbies, let it be by chance... and not "do it with me because"

[BonzoInBitburg]

It's fun to do some stuff together but I definitely don't want to do everything together

[MrChinaski]

The whole point of having hobbies is to get personal space.

Some overlap of interests is nice, though.

[Seangreen]

I would rather they have their own hobbies so they dont take my stuff that they also need. Imagine dating a girl who has a warhammer 40k space marine army just like you do, its like matter and antimatter colliding

[OneViewpoint]

I would want some common / shared interests but not all. I think it's important to maintain your own interests and friends too.

[Abbycado]

I’d like them to share. My boyfriend likes to play lacrosse. I actually enjoy going to watch and support him.

[Nikki1989]

I wouldn't be anyone if we didn't share the same interests.

[Nikki1989]

*with

[dragoblack]

They dont need to but i would like them to nerd out about it to me

[Anonymous]

Share - except not sharing diseases or ailments lol 🙃😄🔔

[queenofcardio]

Yes but it's not a must.

[Agape93]

Sure but it isn't needed

[exitseven]

They don't have to

[loveyouoak]

Want them to share

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I don't care at all.