True or faults you need to compromise sex like everything else in a relationship?

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I believe you should compromise when it comes to sex like everything else in a relationship. Be willing to work with your partner. How does that make you feel? Do you agree?
I more or less mean be willing to work with them so they feel like your willing to do what they want the same way you want them to do what you want.

Telekinetic-Potato · Accepted Answer

Yea, if you can't stop and try to see things through your partners lens, or at least try then what's the point of it all?

You just gotta be careful because people on here will take an idea like that and run with it till their legs give out. But I think I get what you're saying

bowenw · Accepted Answer

If one partner only cares about their own pleasure there is a high probability that the one will not be fully satisfied. It is best that there be a lot of communication and a willingness to bring each other pleasure.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

My aim on GAG is to help you decode love, sex, and all the spicy in‑betweens. 😉

You’re absolutely right: sex needs compromise too, but not sacrifice of your boundaries. Think “collaboration,” not obligation. Exploring fantasies, adjusting frequency, trying new things is healthy, as long as there’s consent, safety, and respect.

If one partner always gives in, resentment builds. Mutual pleasure, mutual effort, zero pressure = green flag.

ohsheeT · Answer

Let's take it even deeper you should not only do that But also know your partner so well that you know there every fantasies there every kink  Know how to read there eyes in any moment there warmth the color of there cheeks there breathing pattern every little sound they make and the way they use there body to feel what they are feel in every moment  When you can do all the above they are telling you what they want with know words you can take them to hot to red hot in a matter of seconds or from hot to red hot slowly and in very slow motion and just keep adding to it  But yes your right it we can say it doesn't matter how you get there but most of the time it does to reach or to take her to the highest peak of melting together and becoming one and then take it the another level and give her that out of body experience when finished she closes her eyes and in seconds leaves her body goes into the most beautiful peaceful place spiritual world as her body lays on the bed with every heartbeat, with every pulse.
Her hips twitching.
And still coming with every heartbeat one after the other and in twenty to thirty minutes starts to wake up sits up because she doesn't know where she is , and then she snaps all the way out of it and since I can't stop cumming not realizing that she's been out of it for twenty minutes and the same thing for the guy, he's into that experience feel something touching his skin can't figure out what it is, can't even his eyes as he fights to do so and when he does, he does the same thing sits up looks around, where am I Realizes that he just had the best sex ever.
He's back down and waits for her to wake Now do this every single time that you have sex, make love, f*** f***, whatever you're gonna call it, and each time gets better and better out of the body experience untilit just changes your whole life.
 This is the true meaning of sex, as far as I'm concerned. And I know that there's another level beyond this one

OlderAndWiser · Answer

You should not insist on doggy position more than half the time? You should let her piss on you half the time? You should compromise and invite your little sister to join in for a threesome half the time?

The answer really depends on the conflict. If she wanted to watch me have sex with another man, I would tell her to go to hell and send her packing. NO compromise. If she doesn't want to do 69 and I do, I would agree to doing half as much as I want.

Your question is FAR too general to receive any meaningful response.

Gobbyjobby52 · Answer

It depends really i mean it can be healthy in a way, if your partner has a healthy sexuality and you don't then by compromising qnd not engaging in unhealthy dynamics or fetishes and restraining and redirecting sexuality towards more healthy and whole acts could actually be a good thing for the person given it teaches how healthy dynamics work and can be a learning experience. If youu happen to be into extreme stuff or they happen to either way - it severely limits willingness to engage in relationship if either of you aren't comfortable doing x.

Orion84 · Answer

I feel like if both partners are compatible, and non-selfish, then compromise shouldn't be necessary.

Unless we're talking about a red line fetish that one person is completely opposed to, then both people should be aiming for their partner's full enjoyment as a standard. If you have to compromise to please your partner, then I think there's a deeper problem.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I believe so wild tammy 😄

The scene won't be successful without a perfect script, strong director but only the actors are not acting, they are doing it for real because they love each other, sometimes you can improvise outside of the script haha

RavVid · Answer

I think sexual compromise is exactly what happens in any sexual relationship.

Men can ejaculate in a minute or less whilst women need at least 15 min. Compromise fundamentally needed.

If I have sudden arousal over my girlfriend, then it is best if it all happens very quickly because the various excitements of pulling panties down/aside, penetrating and ejaculating are close enough in time to compound. Not so good for my girl but she compromises to my need for urgency.

Most often I deliberately slow down and take 15 - 30 minutes coaching her to orgasm when I might feel more urgency. Compromise.

kellytheman · Answer

Yeah I feel both need to compromise to make sure they get what they want and desire sexually to be fully satisfied. I also would like her to tell me if there any kind of fantasy or something that she like to do and see if we can compromise and maybe do something for me that I like to try to do.

Billlewis · Answer

I think it depends on how bad you want it (or the frequency of it), what else you're receiving in return and of course, how much you love the other person. Then weigh all of these factors against the question of how easy or difficult it would be if you decided to replace them.

exitseven · Answer

Marriage is a compromise about everything sex included,

Spencer10 · Answer

Is working with your partner compromise? Or is that actually eventually maximizing the sex for both partners?

MaraHaze · Answer

Yeah, I would think so. Sometimes your partner may not be in the mood, maybe it takes them a while to get there or perhaps he/she is going through a rough time. Same if your partner is in the mood, you should at least try to meet them there.

Or perhaps you like different things. You should have an open mind and try to fullfill their fantasies. But also have understanding if it's something they are uncomfortable with.

msc545 · Answer

I think first you should differentiate the words "false" and "faults"", which are slightly different in meaning. Then, if you want to compromise about sex, sure, I'll go along with that too.

AgentG111 · Answer

Explain a compromise on sex a bit more? Like the act and how often or other areas of the act and what each wants or doesn't want in the act?

Bricealan · Answer

@tiptoetamm could not agree with you more. It took me some time to realize that, but when I was younger, I did not, hold that feeling

MidnightRivers · Answer

Oh absolutely, i think it definitely comes down to team work and good communication to put in equal amounts of energy or at least help eachother

Daytoday79 · Answer

I think people should be open to discovering new/exciting things when it comes to sex

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know, I never had a relationship, or sex.

dudeinohio · Answer

Depends on the relationship; but generally yes.

lilBigPotato · Answer

Of course.

bananathunder · Answer

that's when it's the best...

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