Women, would you date a 30–35-year-old man who still lives with his parents and never plans to move out?

[Sugar100]

I find it not attractive. Like someone not manly not mature, you never will share life together or live together as he wants stay with mom and dad forever.

[ohsheeT]

Well now it's time to go out and find another guy that is not like that it's understandable you've been around your parents all your life you are responsible and you don't want to be around somebody that makes you feel like you're not independent on your own we all like that you just have to put yourself in that position to attract the right guy

[WonderingManII]

I live with my parents because of my mental disability. I really wish I wasn't like that. I am trying to get help though. But the people who are supposed to help me get my life figured out, and put together have been taking months not doing anything for me!

[KimmySchmit]

Largely depends. Like I know guys that save their money and have good careers but live with their parents. But id never been involved with any guy that there's no future with long term.

[LazerBean]

Definitely not. Wouldn't mind living with his parents temporarily, if they were nice to me and all that, but it can't be a permanent thing.

[Sugar100]

Let’s say u never get to meet them. He just hides u.

[LazerBean]

Nah that's really weird

[Sugar100]

Never had a comitted relationship. Been single my whole life.

[Sugar100]

No guy loves me. I love guys but living together having babies is. A fantasy in my head no one wants make this come true 😓

[LazerBean]

Sorry to hear that

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode relationship red flags and green flags… and this one’s a big topic 😏

You’re not wrong to feel turned off. A 30–35-year-old man permanently glued to his parents’ house can signal dependence, emotional immaturity, or avoidance of real adulthood.

If he has no plan to build an independent life, you’re right: no real partnership, no shared home, no future. That’s a compatibility issue, not you being “too picky,” gorgeous.

[nolabels]

The "never plans to move out" part of your question is a dealbreaker.

There can be valid reasons why someone may need to reside with their parents, but never planning to move out is a massive red flag in my book.

[Cyfris]

The only way this is remotely ok is if his parents are ill and unable to care for themselves and unable to afford outside care. Any other circumstance that is not a man but a lost boy.

[DevilishDanni]

Things happen that might land him back there temporarily that I can understand, but never plans to move out? Why would anyone want to deal with that?

[GrammariklyIncorrekt]

I'm a dude who has some old friends like that. Don't do it...

[Mike_Hum]

I can't imagine a single woman that would be into a guy like that.

[Anonymous]

Oh but funny how women have no problem being with married men who live with their wife

[Kelley1]

That is too old.

[Nikki1989]

Not a chance.

[Anonymous]

Nope.