Would you date a man who lives at home or has roommates at 30?

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Especially if you have your own apartment? Almost 30

Lottydotty · Accepted Answer

No, but I'd date a woman like that. Look takes alo5 of character to realize living in your parents home is one of your best options for life. Depending on your home life and family dynamics it can be most benefiting for everyone. However rarely is the case. Most of the time the guy is just buying gacha anime girls in Genshin Impact or paying for virtual girl OFs while leeching off their parents food and money. Meanwhile life rots away. If everyone's on board and try to better themselves that's where it makes sense and thats one of the best walks of life a person can have. Screw the system and expectations of other people.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Everyone’s situation is different it’s a case by case issue for me personally just like many other things. I would have to get to know the person and determine whether I think we would be a good fit or not.

Lucy68 · Accepted Answer

Well considering that I will be 28 soon and I still live at home with my mother, I don't believe I have the right to judge or turn down someone that either still lives at home with their parents or have roommates. Plus I know a few men who are 30 that still live at home with their parents but they work, they pay their own bills, and they have their own life. And the reasoning is have y'all seen the housing market lately. If anyone can afford their own place without the help of anyone nowadays, they are extremely lucky.

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

Yes, I would, I have and I am. Nothing wrong with a guy at 30 living with roommates. I live with a roommate at 33. I think in this economy it's more realistic than ever before.

Now if he's still leaving at home with parents, as long as he's saving up to get his own place, then I have no problem with that either. But I would prefer if he was at least living with roommates.

Rosexøxø · Answer

I can’t answer cause I just love that show! ☺️ Maybe that’s my answer. Do with it as you will! lol

KBird · Answer

Absolutely. My boyfriend is 40, and he lives with his sister. He's just finishing a masters degree, and he recently got out of a sticky divorce (its been going on for 5 years). After his divorce ended he decided to move states and come here, where he currently lives with his sister. He gets to spend quality time with his family and he's saving up to buy a house. I think its admirable. :)

Also, even if he wasn't in school, in this economy, I think staying at home is a great decision.

lyrem04 · Answer

It depends. If he’s living at home or with roommates to save money and work toward something meaningful, then I respect that. But if he’s doing it just out of comfort or to avoid responsibility, that’s a turn-off.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

If he's paying bills and contributing and being smart with his money to eventually get his own place, I don't a lot of women would have a problem with that.. The economy ain't exactly booming atm..

FictionalCharacter · Answer

The dating world has changed a lot in 2025. That I would rather date a man who still lives with his parents, than a man still living with his ex.

Yeah, most guys who are claiming to be single these days are still living under the same roof with their exes.

silvermoon84 · Answer

Would I date a 30 year old? No, I prefer 35+ but I would date a man who lives at home or has roommates. I live on Long Island, rents and housing prices are outrageous here so yes I can understand why local millennials and young adults are still living at home.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly it depends. I don’t think there is anything actually wrong with living with roommates or family. If it is a roommate situation and they’re all heavy partiers probably not. As for family so long as he is saving for his future that is fine too.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

That kind of thing is common enough these days that I can't imagine anyone would particularly mind.

Heck, most of the Millennials I know who have their own places are at least partially funded by their parents anyway.

butterly248 · Answer

Yes, it's much better than living at home in ur 30's /

Kaneki05 · Answer

Tip for guys only date women who would. The rest are problems.

molonski2 · Answer

Absolutely ( assuming female )  Shows she in interested in cost and expenditure.

Babygirl_S · Answer

Only if they don’t rape me and I have a separate room. I fear gang rapes and now 🏳️‍🌈 has joined the chat so I feel like running to some safe place

NicholasRedone · Answer

I'll answer for women "awhh, hell nah" 😂

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Heck, I still meet 40-something and even 60-something women living at home or with roommates. I am kind of indifferent to it.

Anonymous · Answer

Roommates are ok, but 30 is old to be living at your parents house unless there’s a really good reason

blackeagle007 · Answer

Impressed by the answers by the ladies here. I’ve heard some that they won’t date a guy who has a roommate. Classic definition of $ is most important

MrChinaski · Answer

If you are dating, I don't see the difference between you and them.

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

guys like that want to move in the second he can, then ill be stuck paying for him, hell no

Godihateyou · Answer

He's definitely got more money than an idiot that bought a house on his own.

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

Yes, I would why not. 🩷

MadinaHasABensheer · Answer

What the hell 🤣 they’re both bad options.

EmmaMary · Answer

No thank you.

WonderingManII · Answer

I'm a guy, I don't date men.

Panthero80 · Answer

I would not date a man at any age.

Robert1971 · Answer

Maybe he or she is saving money at home.

belle_kai · Answer

No sorry

jahaims · Answer

I don't date men

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