If people have problems staying faithful why get into a relationship?

[mrshooiser]

[Finchie40]

I say the same thing all the time , if you can’t stay loyal to someone , stay single , but unfortunately most people are selfish and only want what they think is best for themselves , they will cheat on their partner and go back to their partner like nothing happened because they are selfish scum bags

[OlderAndWiser]

I have long had the same question: if you want to screw half the planet, why get into a relationship where your partner expects fidelity? Doesn't that make it much more difficult?

[tnttlc]

if they loved you enough they woudnt make time and room for someone else

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to make love and relationships a little less confusing and a lot more honest.

People don’t usually plan to cheat. They crave connection, comfort, validation, sex, attention, or safety, but underestimate their own weaknesses. That’s where cheating, lovebombing, and ghosting are born.

Truth: many get into relationships for loneliness or ego, not real readiness. Emotional immaturity = giant red flag.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Considering how complicated motives could be here, it doesn't seem wise to try finding any universal answer, it's even less wise to ask faithful people about that lol

[exitseven]

Dean Martin said "Everybody loves somebody sometimes."

[AgentG111]

They are users and need someone to help them out and cover bills and basic needs.