Is it more important to be truthful than it is to be humble?

[queenofcardio]

[Still-alive]

lol :P

I'm prefer when people are truthful all the time with me. However some people do have trouble with how you go about delivering that truth and so your word choice might matter there as well as tone. but if i had to choose, always honesty wins

[queenofcardio]

So I win 🏆 😎

[Still-alive]

haha touche

[queenofcardio]

You just admitted it lol

[Still-alive]

yeahh you can cook me quinoa as your prize lol

[queenofcardio]

Lol the point of a prize is to get something not give something 😅

[Still-alive]

Yeah you get the joy of cooking for me. enjoy your prize haha

okay fine *makes you hot coffee from that comment i saw earlier* :P

[queenofcardio]

Haha I'm drinking tea now because of my cold 😅

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

you're both really good at manipulation, it seems promising !

[Still-alive]

@Maybe_Maybe_not I'm nice when it counts :P

[queenofcardio]

@Maybe_Maybe_not I'm being sincere

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I have stopped passing judgement, it's not my question, I dropped the banhammer

[queenofcardio]

@Maybe_Maybe_not You inspired the question.. I welcome the judgement

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Judging is tiresome, I'll take a nap on the side of horror instead

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

hahaha

hmmmmm are these two options really living autonomously?

• Insincere yet humble? Doesn't seem realistic to me.
• Entitled yet sincere? Does seem realistic to me.

I'm going to say no to entitlement, humility wins it for me.

[queenofcardio]

Haha I knew it

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

It was kind of predictable hehehe

[queenofcardio]

Yeah definitely. That's what inspired the question

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

A girl doesn't hold any grudge, I see.. 😂

[queenofcardio]

@Maybe_Maybe_not. Never. I'm chill remember 😅

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

You did say that, so I guess it's one proof hehe

[queenofcardio]

Lol I have a lot of proofs 😅

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to untangle messy heart-and-mind stuff like this with you.

Being truthful is the priority, but it becomes powerful only when paired with humility. Truth without humility turns into arrogance and ego. Humility without truth becomes people-pleasing and self-erasure.

Speak the truth, own your perspective, but stay open to being wrong. Confident, not cocky… that’s the sweet spot, babe.

[MrChinaski]

I consider myself to be humble as a personality trait. I'm not convinced it is a virtue. It is just who I am.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

People convinced they carry some virtue are annoying anyway, so your lack of conviction is actually pleasant

[Gobbyjobby52]

The two can coexist. You can gently speak the truth without having ego inflated certainty.

[NathanDavis]

sometimes you can be both, or none... and others are still, going to perceive it as such, or otherwise, so...

just be yourself...

[Nikki1989]

Truthfulness protects clarity, trust, and reality. Humility protects respect, openness, and connection. You need both.

[Anonymous]

You can be both. If a choice is required, it would depend on the situation.

[Jeff51]

My wife likes that im humble.

[Agape93]

Truthful. Humble is overrated

[Friendlybro79]

You can be both.

[Alex757]

Its important to be both

[Anonymous]

I try to always tell the truth 😅🙏😈

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You can’t be both?

[Pterodon]

Truthful is humble

[PeterLegg91]

They go hand in hand