Okay brother, this sound like a guy that out there dating and listening to woman that say they value honesty above all other things, and that all they want is genuine, sincere and honest make.
Like bro, it's not lie but don't believe it either my man.
You got to learn how to be honest without being too honest. Like never lie to a woman, but at the same time, don't give the complete truth... most woman cannot handle that. When find one that can, then know she is special.
Don't cover shit in the bullshit glaze you mentioned either... because that is mistake as well. It's as good as lying to woman... like women are not stupid they will see through that... and even though they will accept your kind words as intended... they will not believe you are sincere or genuine either.
Just because they respect honesty does not give you a green light to spout off your truths to them... like it's not sexy my man.
So be honest, but too honestly. Thats a universal truth in the dating world. Never lie, be honest, but not too honest.
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I don't know what the biggest is but I can agree with you that most people don't want true honesty unless it either reassures their emotions or isn't so serious that it will negatively affect them.
Now I tend to test the waters with people. Like I'll mention my truthful perspective in a question form so that I can see how they handle truths being brought up. If I see that their defense is put up very strongly then I won't voice it any further because it will likely just piss them off & they'll be immature about it instead of having a more scientific or reasonable view.
I like honesty. Hell, I even like blunt. What I absolutely hate is passive aggression.
Funny, you believed this catfish was real.
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No I’d say that people want honesty but it is interwoven into other desires such as love and safety and trust. Being blunt to a strangers question may carry risk as you haven’t established trust and they will question your motivations. Being 100% honest with a small child isn’t safe many times as the information is not what they need. But in a mature and loving relationship with someone you respect and have built an understanding with the vulnerable and raw honestly given answer must be provided.
Yeah coming from high trust society we had to be specifically taught that Americans expect you to lie in certain situations like if you are asked How are you? after your pet dog died yesterday and your car just begun leaking coolant fluid, you are expected to say Oh I'm fine and direct honesty can be seen as insulting.
I definitely want it. Though ill admit I pretended like i did but i was just weak at hearing the actual truth from people.
now i tell people i care more about hearing the truth then my feelings possibly getting hurt over whatever they gotta tell me.
People want honesty, so long as it doesn't f*** with thier whole belief structure. People see the world how they see it regardless of how wrong that might be they don't want that view changing. So if you tell them something the rocks that whole belief structure then they have to re-examine things. And they don't want to do that. Most people would rather go on living a lie. Because it's comfortable to them.
So to answer your question. They only think they want the truth. Whether they actually do is another thing.
Well tell the truth to a guy, possibility getting knocked out or shot etc. Be honest to a woman and you might get her knee or foot in your testicles. Followed by cops, arrest, court, possibly jail/prison. Best thing to do - keep your mouth shut
Listen that's an honest question. But honestly you need to spend a lot less time worrying about other people and a lot more time on yourself being honest. at least you know your doing your part.
Yes. Everybody wants to hear the truth as long it isn't about them.
no society is so full of taboos as today's
If you are sincere, it is not a lie.
Too many lies to decide
No, of course not.
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