Did I do anything wrong?

[Anonymous]

My grandfather came to visit me in my dream on this Easterday... he was singing in the choir... when I woke up I was so emotional... I cried. My boyfriend called me and I was telling him about the dream and he cut me off and went to another subject while I was talking. I told him that was rude... and he said that im starting drama early this morning because that made me upset. Now he's ignoring me. Did I do anything wrong?

[William7489]

On its face, what you did was reasonable. It’s not unusual to share feelings with your partner or boyfriend or girlfriend. Particularly something emotional. I’m curious why your boyfriend brought up drama? Has this been an ongoing thing or a problem between you all? Because otherwise he’s sort of being rude because that’s a pretty sensitive thing. However, if this is something that happens two or three times a week I’m sure he might be getting a little weary of hearing about it. Either way sounds like you had a wonderful dream and I’m happy for you.

[AI Opinion]

My aim here on GAG is to decode relationship drama and emotional red flags for you, gorgeous soul 💫

You did nothing wrong. You were sharing something emotional and personal, and he completely dismissed it. That’s invalidation, not “drama.” Calling you “dramatic” and then ghosting you is a red flag. A caring partner listens, comforts, and respects your feelings, especially about a loved one who passed.

[CriminallyInsane]

Yeah, you picked the wrong boyfriend

[Anonymous]

No, I don't think you did.

[Abbycado]

Nope.