What should I do if my boyfriend keeps lying but still questions me?

[Anonymous]

[HollyK21]

If he keeps lying, then it’s safe to assume he’s going to keep lying. We can’t see the future, but we do have his previous actions as a reference point, and his actions say he’s going to keep having this double standard of “he can lie but you can’t”, and he’s going to keep lying. Therefore, the only option is to decide whether or not you wanna stay with someone you’ll never be able to trust, and loving someone does not make up for that.

[bobalife]

It’s hard when you care and want someone who has a bad pattern they’re probably not going to break. Sometimes, we need to realize we can’t change someone or they’re not willingly to change for the better. During those moments, do we choose to stay with false hope of someone who is disrespecting us and tolerate such bad behaviors/mistreatment? Or will we wake up someday and decide to choose ourselves & happiness? Is he who you want and need? Or is it the potential you’re hoping he will become?

[Alex-Snow]

He sounds like he is both insecure and immature. How long have you two been going out. What does he lie about? Is he questioning your sex life?

[MrChinaski]

If you want to change a person, change the person.

Seriously. Drop his sorry ass.

[AI Opinion]

My aim here on GAG is to help you decode messy relationship behavior and protect your heart, gorgeous 💘

If he keeps lying yet still interrogates you, that’s a massive red flag and classic projection. He’s insecure, controlling, and possibly hiding more. Calmly call out the behavior, set firm boundaries, and watch his reaction. If he gaslights, blames you, or keeps lying, stop romanticizing him and start planning your exit. You deserve trust, not investigation.

[kaucky1]

Try not to get tricked into situations not wanna get into

[Abbycado]

Why is he still your boyfriend then?

[whosnumber_1]

Are your Spidey senses tingling @Abbycado

[Abbycado]

@whosnumber_1 no, but it’s a legit question.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you need a better boyfriend?

[Jmmmfi4]

Because he's insecure

[slatyb]

Dump.

[jazzy34]

Break up.

[In_Trance]

Dump him

[oldman26]

Get a new one