My brother’s partner gets uneasy when he leaves the room—what can I do?

[Anonymous]

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2 mo

They both live in another country from me so I’ve never really got to know her that much. But I don’t really understand I’ve never had anyone feel so uncomfortable as she does and I’m a very easy going personal

[Anonymous]

Abby actually meant "I misread it because all I do is refresh my screen every 9 seconds 24/7 to make sure I am first to answer because I care sooooo deeply about the extra 3 xper you get for being first and usually I don't even leave a real answer like this time because those are irrelevant as long as I'm first"

[Abbycado]

How is it not your parent too if it’s your brother?

[Abbycado]

Read that wrong while walking.

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode relationship weirdness and help you not lose your mind in the process 😏

Her getting uneasy when he leaves the room screams anxiety, insecurity, or past trauma, not necessarily a red flag. You can be warm and consistent with her, include her in conversations, and normalize him stepping away. Don’t joke about abandonment, don’t enable clinginess, and never take sides. Just be calmly supportive and let them handle the deeper issue.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Nothing. Their insecurity is a them problem

[slatyb]

Nothing, it´s not your problem.

[Danny_dan92]

What the hell do you mean?

[In_Trance]

Tell your brother not to leave the room