Girls, what’s the #1 thing that keeps a guy loyal besides sex?

[Finchie40]

Every guy needs this in a relationship for him to stay with you , what do you think it is?

[MrOracle]

The Bible instructs men to love their wives, and it instructs women to RESPECT their husbands. The difference isn't an accident - it's a recognition that men need respect more than they need love, and that they can't feel loved unless they are first respected.

Feminism has aggressively taught women and society in general not to respect men. Look at almost any TV commercial, or any family sitcom. The men are portrayed as helpless morons who need a woman to solve the problem. You see that everywhere, and it's not an accident. It came directly from the Marxist NYC elites who set the agenda for the movement in the 1960s-1990s.

Most women here will just dismiss this, but there is ample evidence readily available. It's rarely connected into a narrative that is cohesive and easy to follow because they don't want it to be obvious to general readers, but they know their own indoctrinated followers will easily be able to decide the messages. Well, so can you if you make even a minor effort.

The disrespect of men has become so normalized that most women don't even realize they are doing it, and even some week men have accepted and embraced it, but most men are so done with it that they have simply walked away from relationships with women entirely. So if you wonder why you can't find men, that's why. They aren't looking to be found.

[Daniel707]

Well sex doesn’t keep someone loyal to you at the end of the day its integrity. The better question is how to keep someone because while a loyal person won’t cheat they will leave if they become unhappy or not satisfied with a relationship anymore.

Biggest thing is communication when you have things in a relationship that’s a problem your partner isn’t a mind reader. Use English words…. And tell a person what you need and want. Becoming angry with someone and they don’t even know why you’re mad and they try to communicate and you can’t. Someone who’s mature and has self respect will eventually remove themselves from a toxic person.

Taking things out on him that aren’t in his control. This also comes down to communication but because you had a bad day or are having girl problems doesn’t mean your man deserves to be treated like shit. If you need some space tell him or if you need to vent to him just tell him you need to vent. But don’t treat him like crap consistently or he will probably eventually leave.

One sided relationships are another issue demanding to be treated as a queen but refuse to treat him as a king. Dudes with self respect just will find a woman with more to offer point blank. Relationships take effort by both sides. The roles people play may look different from relationship to relationship that’s okay but it should be equal in some way.

Not being there for him emotionally. If you can’t have basic empathy and love for your partner you shouldn’t be dating. Men also have emotional needs even the Bible says if a woman won’t comfort her husband during hard times she creates shaking knees.

[Crimsyjo]

Please do tell !

I dont know a singular word for this but I think it's a woman having your back and not judging you. No gossiping or bitching about you to others. Accepting you might have an off day. Talking things out instead of shutting down. Accepting both sides can make mistakes and owning up to your own side of a problem. Maybe the word is trust. If a guy can have trust in you?

[Crimsyjo]

Now I just read the AI thing and it said it perfectly lol. Emotional safety.

[Finchie40]

Emotional safety is up there but Respect is is the answer. If we don’t feel respected in a relationship with a girl , we will more than likely walk the other way

[Crimsyjo]

Respect is a tricky word. What does respect mean to you? I have heard "respect your elders" many times. Respect your teachers. Respect your parents. It feels like a word associated with power. To be humble to those who know better or have experience. I'm not saying disrespect your partner. But respecting their space, feelings, needs etc perhaps comes under loyalty and trust (emotional safety) too? Otherwise the word respect on its own just doesn't feel intimate enough to me? Too general. We should respect all good people relationship or not right?

[Finchie40]

Respect him the same way you want to be respected in return , don’t talk down on him , especially to your friends’ or family , don’t belittle him or criticize him , , choose him the same way you want him to choose you , it isn’t always going to be perfect , nothing is perfect period , but when you respect your partner and make him feel loved and valued and wanted , he will more than likely do the same for you. A lot of females’ lose their man because she starts to disrespect him , or compare him to other people and make him feel like he is no longer a good man , but if respect your man and praise him and talk positive about him , he is going to love you more and more because he feels safe and loved and wanted. Most of us guys’ love words of affirmation and physical touch , when she comes into our arms without having to ask , he feels loved and wanted and respected by her. When she makes it clear there is no other guy that she wants but him , he will love that knowing his girl loves him the same way he loves her. Why respect goes a long way , especially in a relationship

[DishLady]

My cooking, bruh. I also try to meet a guy 1/2 way conversationally, try to be helpful if I know what to do in a situation, and ask the guy for help sometimes if I need it... Simple. Honest. That's it.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode love, loyalty, and all the messy stuff in between for you.

The thing that keeps a guy loyal isn’t sex, it’s emotional safety. Feeling respected, appreciated, trusted, and wanted. When he feels admired, not nagged, desired, not used, and safe to be vulnerable without getting mocked or controlled, he’ll cling to you like WiFi with full bars. ❤️‍🔥

[RavVid]

It is pretty clear. Loyalty and niceness.

Loyalty should be a given but aside from fidelity, there is the loyalty of backing you up and not criticizing you behind your back and posting Tik Toks.

Niceness is very important to a peaceful house. Passive aggressive stuff is probably the worst because it is semi deniable but very aggravating over time.

If you don't get this you are vulnerable to other girls who are nice to you and you start thinking of how nice life with them instead of your current.

[Abbycado]

Wouldn’t this be a question for guys? Since they would know

[Finchie40]

Just testing you girls’ to see if you know the answer , and if you don’t know the answer? Maybe it can help you have a much better relationship with your boyfriend

[Abbycado]

So there is only one singular, universal thing that guys need besides sex?

[hornyasfudge]

yiyour carkkeys

[Finchie40]

Respect , a guy needs to feel respected by his partner to want to stay with his partner , if she isn’t very respectful to him , he more than likely will walk away or be open to another girl that respects him more than you do

[Anonymous]

Well, that depends on the guy. But I'd say valuing him as a person. And when I say that, I mean showing him that appreciation. See where a lot of women make their mistake is applying what they would want from a relationship. Well, that's great if he were a woman, but he's not.😆 I don't think it has to be sex. But I do think it has to be a certain level of affection.

[NathanDavis]

I don't know about every other man

but to me, being loyal and faithful is not conditional and it's not a responsibility I put on women either

I JUST AM, a loyal person... period.

if you need conditions to stay... then that's not loyalty, that's you just waiting for better conditions, or to leave if the conditions are not satisfied, that's convenience and temporary as well

[OneViewpoint]

Respect. Attention. Caring. Meeting him halfway. Just being engaged in the relationship. When those things disappear, so do I. Mind body spirit. I want it all. Or nothing.

[Anonymous]

Good question and respect is the answer

But equally, guys earn respect

So it cuts both ways

Guy must behave such a way that he deserves that respect


So overall, in addition to sex
Guy must behave responsibly, earn respect,
Woman must respect him

In that sense I would agree

And speaking from experience, I didn't behave properly, I didn't get respect, I did flip out
Things have been difficult

You

[sage2021]

I think that if they were raised right and to be loyal - that might make them stay.

[CherryLove007]

Get outta here with that BS... they want variety and we are living on a big Epstein island.

[jahaims]

Loyalty has nothing to do with sex. A person either has good morals and values or they don't. If someone is only not cheating because of sex then they aren't loyal.

[Kayla45]

It’s unlikely, the moment he gets bored or if sex slows down then he’ll go looking for someone else

[Finchie40]

That’s possible if he doesn’t feel respected by his partner. Respect is the number 1 thing guys’ want in a relationship with a girl , if he doesn’t receive respect on a regular basis , that’s when he might walk away or look elsewhere. But if he is loved and respected and feels his feelings matter to her , then he more than likely won’t cheat or stray whatsoever, because he would be a dumb ass for leaving a girl that does that for him. When I am with a girl that respects me, is honest with me and loyal to me , she doesn’t have to worry one bit about me betraying her because my heart belongs to her , but if she disrespects me , criticizes me, belittles me , makes me feel like my feelings don’t matter , then eventually she will no longer matter to me and I will walk away or be interested in another girl that respects me and speaks kindly to me and about me. Most girls’ lose their men because they disrespect him , they talk down on him to her friends’ and family , they compare him to other men and say he isn’t a good man etc.. she is slowly digging her own grave by doing that to him. Most of us guys’ love a girl that says positive things to us , that make us feel valued and appreciated and wanted , a girl that doesn’t hesitate to be in his arms without him asking , a girl that will defend him to her friends’ and family. Unfortunately most friends and family ’ can be toxic to your relationship , thinking they know your relationship better than you do , and the truth is they don’t know shit about your love and your relationship with your partner. When a guy feels his partner prioritizes him and values him , he will more than likely do the same , if he doesn’t , then kick him to the curb where he belongs , because he is one stupid guy if he betrays a girl that treats him like Gold.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I would be sad if she thought she had to find things to keep me loyal

[smashleyy]

A back hand (jokes I have no clue)

[spartan55]

Loyalty, respect, appreciation.

[Masumgunahkar]

If you keep a man's stomach full and his testicles empty, he will always remain faithful.😃😃

[Agape93]

Respect.

[Finchie40]

Winner!! 😊

[hornyasfudge]

loyaans and grust are the biggest things

[MrChinaski]

Hope.