Girls, do you really believe following these rules improves relationships?

[NoDecision]

You may have a better relationship if you follow these rules.

[ohsheeT]

I agree with all of those except for by safety pads for you not condoms I don't get that one

But anyway yes there's a time and a place for everything and even though I agree with all that I'm still going to try because there are moments in time when things are just right and you have to express that or at least I do

What are safety pads is that a chastity belt LOL

Or is it like bumper pads so she doesn't run into the wall

Or is it pads and when did they start calling them safety pads

[RavVid]

The first problem I notice is it entirely about what a girl should get from a man. So the first problem it has nothing to do with what will make a man happy which is roughly 50% of a happy relationship.

This is reminding me of a joke last night. A woman is at the doctors and mentions she is stressed because her husband gets angry.

The doctor advises her that when this happens for her to take a mouthful of water and swish and swish the water around in her mouth.

When she goes back, she reports the water swishing worked perfectly and asks how did the water work so well.

The doctor says the water does nothing but keeping your mouth closed did.

[NoDecision]

Hmmmm. Well at least she doesn't have a bunch of tadpoles swimming around in her mouth.

[RavVid]

Initially I thought was going to the punchline

[Finchie40]

I will pass on those rules lol

[Anonymous]

1. True, but if it is because she wants to and feels comfortable doing that then she should do it. Vice versa for guys too (such as myself). Especially making him comfortable with your body since he’ll be seeing it a lot, if he finds you repulsive then he shouldn’t stick around vice versa.

2. Okay, but that raises a risk of not being sexually compatible and finding that out too late in marriage. One may want one thing, other wants that. I’d say explore those areas mindfully and with safety in mind with consenting two parties.

3. A guy who feels comfortable buying pads for your period is a huge win, and to have a guy that is comfortable getting pregnancy tests, condoms, birth control pills too is good when you want to be sexually active.(better safe than sorry)

4. The housing market sucks, so if their parents are always home then some place to make passionate love for privacy can be good even if it is not a home.

5. Agree.

6. Agree.

7. Agree.

[NathanDavis]

this sounds like it came out straight from the 60's...

[NoDecision]

Let me ask you this. Were relationships in the 60s better than today, where people kill their mates or girlfriends because they broke up with them? Some can't seem to handle rejection, even when they are the cause of such rejection.

[Friendlybro79]

If you weren't in a relationship in the 60s you don't know. My grandparents were divorced (in the 60s) and not everyone was in happy marriages back then. I say marriages because they didn't date until 40. They got married at 18-25. 25 was old. Was it better overall? Not sure. Maybe. Today things are brutal so I get your point but many people have good relationships today too. I think we're in my h tougher financial times which stresses all relationships eventually

[Friendlybro79]

18-25 on avg. Not everyone of course

[MrChinaski]

Nah. The English language skills were far higher in the 60s.

[NathanDavis]

@nodecisiono well... in fact

during the 60's there were people who murdered their mates, girlfriends, partners and spouses yes...

now only these murders existed but they were also "downplayed" by society... this, because instead of a partner MURDERING their counterpart, these things were called something like a " heat of the moment situation" and the charges were a lot less

so, yes... it did happen during the 60's and it was punished to a lesser degree as well

so, I guess... men haven't changed that much

[Ironco]

Lol, what year are you living in?

Just find a good person. You'll know and stick with them.

[NoDecision]

That is the problem - finding someone who will not kill you if you break up with them.

[ZameerAnsari91]

I'm totally agree with this.
Girls should follow these rules.

[MrChinaski]

Because that's what relationships need. More freakin' rules. 🤦‍♀️

[Surely]

Haven’t met many girls/women who would want to discuss when Aunt Flo came to visit. Other than to say NO! PERIOD!

[Wodens_Apprentice]

8. Buy her flowers

9. Buy her chocolate

10. Never mention the periods, even if she keeps talking about it 😅

[AgentG111]

Who wrote this? They definitely need some help!

[NoDecision]

How so? You think that all a girl is good for is sex?

[AgentG111]

The spelling and grammar are horrible. What the hell is a safety pad? Why the devil is this stating a boy?
Why in the hell would a man ask about your period pain?

[Anonymous]

Probably. The problem is finding one that actually would want to.

[Lliam]

This is a joke, right?

[Paige2006]

Don't agree with five out of seven