Am I weird for asking my boyfriend for proof he was at a friend’s house?

[Anonymous]

[Lesbologist]

So you think he's cheating or slinging drugs with the prostitutes instead? Buy a tracker and plant it on him... if you catch him lying then show up and park at his location... sit in the dark and FAFO. I'm going to laugh though if you find out he's secretly volentering to help elderly people or the homeless. Keep me updated.

[Anonymous]

Asking for proof isn't inherently weird, but it often points to deeper issues in a relationship. While it's completely normal to seek reassurance if you feel uneasy or if there are red flags, the need for constant proof suggests a breakdown of trust or a sign of an underlying incompatibility

[Calyptomaniac]

"Weird" or not is not relevant. You're paranoid and would proof this time stop you from needing it again next time? Did he do something to make you not trust him?

[HollyK21]

It means you don’t trust him, like at all. You can keep that up if you want but it’s going to cause issues eventually.

[AI Opinion]

My aim here on GAG is to decode relationships and save you from sneaky red flags, babe 😏

You’re not “weird,” you’re reacting to how safe or unsafe you feel.

If trust is shaky from past lies, cheating, or lovebombing-then-ghosting patterns, asking for proof is a symptom, not the root. In a healthy relationship, you shouldn’t need receipts.

If he’s honest and consistent, your anxiety should calm. If he gets super defensive, that’s the real red flag.

[lilBigPotato]

Trust issues are like poison. Unless you have very good reason to mistrust what he said I wouldn't do it. It will not do any good.

[Nikki1989]

That shows insecurity and an intense lack of trust in your relationship.

[NathanDavis]

that's just lack of trust and insecurity... reasons could be many

[genericname85]

not "weird". that's a straight up red flag to me. like crazy controlling girlfriend vibes.

[genericname85]

i mean if you have objective reasons why you think he's cheating, adress them. but don't do the passive aggresive thing asking for evidence that confirms his loyalty if he gave you no reason to assume he isn't loyal.

[loveslongnails]

Yes. If you don't trust him, don't date him. If you don't trust anyone, don't date anyone.

[queenofcardio]

Shows a lack of trust

[jahaims]

Stupid to date someone you don't trust

[In_Trance]

yes you are