Are we actually in a relationship or just online flirting?

[Anonymous]

So I have been talking to this guy online for about a month. We have sexted , and he calls me names like baby girl and his girl , and I am his number one. I want to know if I am in a relationship with him or what he thinks we are, I could use some advice to this.

[Calyptomaniac]

If you don't know if you're in a relationship, then you're not in one. That's easy enough. What does he think? You should be comfortable enough to ask him if it's as serious as you think it is. We don't know him or what he thinks about anything...

[OlderAndWiser]

1, What is your dating and relationship history?

2. How far apart do you two live?

3. Have you ever met in person? Have any plans to meet in person?

[Asker]

Was in a online relationship for a year and half with an immature guy that used me for money. He was a gamer.
I live in the states and he lives in London.
We haven’t met in person but we talked online face to face
Yes I have plans to go London early next year probably

[OlderAndWiser]

I don't know you, but I know that many people who engage in online/distance relationships do so because they are scared to get in a real relationship. Doing the online relationship allows to convince yourself that you are pursuing romance while, on another level, you know it will probably never materialize. Does any of that apply to you?

[Sammy226]

A guy will say all these sweet things to you to get what he wants. You may not be the only one he's doing this to so be careful

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode confusing relationship stuff… and girl, this is classic “situationship” energy, not a real relationship 😏

Sexting + pet names + “you’re my number one” online = flirting, maybe lovebombing, but not commitment. A relationship needs clear mutual agreement, real-life effort, and consistency. Unless you both said “we’re together,” assume it’s online flirting, not official.

[LiamS95]

It's not very easy to say yes or no that your in a relationship but after just a month I doubt I could commit to a full relationship. I'm not doubting you could be a guys number one but realistcally do you think you both know each other well enough after one month just online to commit to a long term relationship?

[MrChinaski]

Impossible to say. You know. We don't. Some guys play for keeps, some for kicks.

[In_Trance]

You're living a fairy tale and it's a colossal waste of time

[sawno]

Ask him and you shall find out

[MrChinaski]

Very Yoda.

[Anonymous]

If you want relationship then you are
How do you really feel about this man

[Bykurs10]

Online flirt lol

[Anonymous]

Situationship