Whose life is easier overall: boys or girls?

[lessthansane]

[DonaldDarko]

Men we have to do hard labor and no one looks after us like with women. But, we're built to handle all that and more. I'm shocked at women that try to "transition" and end up crying about how hard it is. No it is not I've been this way all my life and I don't give a damn about any of the things these women talk about. " it's so hard" LOL! It's not hard, I feel NOTHING like any of that and I'm often happy. When I feel sad that does about as much an acorn falling on a tank in the light of what these women are saying.

[Staglioni]

I genuinely laughed at "I feel NOTHING". The laugh of understanding 😂

[DonaldDarko]

@Staglioni What those women are feeling i don't know. Seems like society is trying to push a narrative on us that we're somehow fragile and on the brink

[Staglioni]

They can't do that to me. I've already been on the brink for years at this point.😅

[molonski2]

Guys for sure..

Woman has a stray = gets pregnant

This fcks her body , big work back.

Monthly bleeding = Fck that

Tampons , moods , expectation

Actually giving birth , massive pain.

Then after she spits out 3 , he shoots off and finds a younger one with a better body.

So , you have rooted your education for this dude , career is fcked , 3 kids in daycare , fighting with your family , house is a mess , life is fooked..

BUT , it will be better when the kids grow?

NOPE , now you have early onset menopause , you feel like sht, just wish you could end it.. but NOPE 2 of your kids are in trouble..

While he goes to the gym and beach..

A woman's life is utterly and completely inferior to a man's , just coz it's easier to get an initial root? BIG DEAL.

You always bang the wrong one , his sack is empty he won't care , just horrible.

[midnightmoon05]

Mine. Because I chose to live a simple life.

[objective_calendar]

... Rich people.

[usernameobvious]

This deserves most helpful ☺️ lol and true. Truth.

[Jmmmfi4]

Definitely

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode relationship and gender dynamics without sugarcoating them 😏

Neither has it “easier,” just different battlegrounds.
Guys get pressure to be strong, emotionless, providers, to never show weakness.
Girls get judged on looks, sexuality, aging, safety, motherhood, and double standards nonstop.

Society lovebombs and punishes both in different ways. It’s not a competition, it’s two different kinds of heavy loads.

[AviatorTom]

Boys have it easier. We guys don't need to deal with our body bleeding once a month. And if we have children, our job is over in 2-3 minutes, while the woman has a creature growing inside her for 9 months.

[OlderAndWiser]

How do you measure how easy or difficult a life is so that you have the information necessary to make the comparison?

[Chazmatazz269]

100% girls and it’s not even close.

[Anonymous]

It kind of depends. It might be a kneejerk response to say women. Because women can choose a life of autopilot without physical labor. Just lie on their back and take some pipe rvery now and then.

But is that really easier? As a man i'd rather be honest and upstanding. For a woman to live life on autopilot she has to be cold, calculating, and decietful. Now don't get me wrong, there are a lot of women who live this way. And to be fair women lie about 50% of the time. But it's what they lie about that makes all the difference.

[Purpleronnie]

There can’t be a single objective answer before it’s entirely dependant on what aspect of ‘life’ your looking at


Men & Women face different advantages and disadvantages. Whose life is easier depends heavily on which part of life you’re measuring and your viewpoint.

[HighValue]

In the USA and most western countries, women have a FAR easier life, but in middle eastern and Asian countries, men have it easier. The thing that is stupid though is it is mostly western and American women that claim men have easier lives when it is the opposite where they live but they are often too ignorant to realize it and too stupid to learn when they see it for themselves all the time.

[Staglioni]

I'm thinking it's us fellas, but ladies, you could also make it a tad bit easier on yourselves if you were just a little less critical of each other, I suspect. Save the critiques for us, sometimes we need the kick in the rear end to get us going.

[Mark_Est]

Of course women, not even a question.

They get their value upfront while men have to build it up, if they can. And everything is catered to women.

[MrChinaski]

Honestly. My impression is that it is getting harder for both groups. Life was better when kids ran wild around the neighbourhood and rolled back home, somebody in the neighbourhood's home, for dinner when it got dark.

[Brendan824]

Neither are easier or harder
Men have to deal with maintaining an image of being strong but having nobody to lean on as majority don't care
Women have to deal with the fear of being a woman when she's out and about especially at night

[DirtyOldMan777]

girls. Look up Norah Vincent, an American journalist, lived as a man for 18 months to explore gender dynamics, chronicled in her book Self-Made Man. She went into a deep depression and committed suicide from the experience.

[Chazmatazz269]

You screwed up some very important details.
First, she only lived as a man for about nine months. Her goal was a year, but it became too challenging and she cut her experiment short.
Second, she suffered from mental health issues her entire life, and her suicide came almost a decade after her experiences living as “Ned”.

[DirtyOldMan777]

@Chazmatazz269 So you just forget that she repeatedly said that men have it much harder than women think. watch her interviews afterwards. there is a mini documentary about the whole thing. the experiences was a huge part of the unaliving herself.

[LC75LC71]

Girls immediately start life on extra easy and then become extremely difficult to deal with later on.

[Cidknee]

Let's say each is equipped with the resources to handle their own.
Boys of course!

[Anonymous]

Girls have much easier life in most situations. Not all the girls of course, only the hot ones.

[MissSunshine2]

Each gender has its own challenges.

[usernameobvious]

Yeah guys usually have life easier

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[_piotr]

Girls. They are treated almost as royalty.

[Historygal]

Boys obviously !

[Wodens_Apprentice]

It's sad to see a history girl think this. Men are expected to do all the hard things in life to even get a chance to breed whereas women just have to be pretty, nice & be good at weaving fabrics. Women don't have to do the latter anymore.
Men also always had the law applied against us more harshly. The same actions that got women sent into exile would have a man executed. When a man committed murder in the Dark Ages he would be made to pay twice the amount of debt off then a woman.
Finally in the modern dating market we men have to spend years being alone and miserable whereas women have a giant ocean of men to pick & choose from as women rarely have to spend long alone.
A recent study showed that Misandry towards men from women is way more common then genuine Misogyny towards women.
Even openly misogynistic men like me don't always treat women like sex objects like women think we do.
From what I've observed most women prefer the men who treat them as sex objects though 😔

[Historygal]

Back in the day we were not allowed to do anything and we would go from owner to owner and could not decide for ourselves ! I think we should get some slack these days it’s not easy being a girl and we tend to have more pressure put on us to be smart be pretty be kind be honest men don’t have to be anything and have one thing desired of them that is be a provider

[Historygal]

@Wodens_Apprentice i did not report you or anything but we clearly do not agree about this i dont really think we are going to so im going to leave it at that have a nice day 😘just be kind and the world will be kind to you

[Wodens_Apprentice]

I didn't think you reported me.
I used to be kind and learnt the opposite lesson. Everyone who is nice gets trodden on & taken advantage of, whilst all vain and nasty people seem to be treated with respect.
May you have a wonderful day also 🎩

[Just_Ken]

Girls for sure.

[katiesmuff]

I would say it is boys!

[Wodens_Apprentice]

This is just proof that your half of the human race has less empathy then our half.

[Manuelwe]

In some areas men and in others women

[Veronika_p]

Girls

[Soapsoaplady]

Girls

[Jmmmfi4]

Definitely guys

[Smileygirl2000]

No one's

[loveyouoak]

Boys

[_xhoxo]

I think boys

[FrodoSkywalker007]

@_xhoxo why boys?

[_xhoxo]

@FrodoSkywalker007 I don't think from boys is expected as much as from women. Even if comes to appearance. Lots of guys not men have easy life, coming back to clean home, dinner ready, kids picked up from school etc, they often don't care about small things as shopping for the house, cleaning, relaying on women, they think as long as they work they don't need to do much more. Plus short hair doesn't need so much carrying and time lol I know I was bold 3y ago haha

[FrodoSkywalker007]

Lol fair enough. So nothing is hard for men?

[_xhoxo]

@FrodoSkywalker007 nah I didn't mean that, men have lots of struggles and hard work too, just overall

[FrodoSkywalker007]

Lol its okay. I totally disagree, but it's fine.

[_xhoxo]

@FrodoSkywalker007 I guess you never know what it’s like until you’re in someone else’s shoes

[In_Trance]

Neither

[Anonymous]

YAWN!

[lessthansane]

YAWN HARDER!

[ZoeElizabeth]

Boys